24/11/2020
WHAT MAKES A BOY TO BE A MAN?
This is a thought provoking question.
This is a question which requires deep answer.
How a boy metamorphosize into a man is something with voluminous explanation.
A boy is a male figure void of the understanding of the manhood and its dignity.
A boy is not only a toddler and teenager because there are adult boy too.
A boy is a male figure without proper identity and understanding of why he came out of his mother's womb as a male.
A man is male figure with sense of responsibility and understanding of the dignity of manhood.
A man is not just the opportunist of a woman but a figure to bear the responsibility for a woman.
What differentiate a man from a boy are these twin factor: UNDERSTANDING AND RESPONSIBILITY.
Understanding talks about the clarity of identity and divine expectation.
Responsibility talks about the independent capacity to make right decisions, choices and steps in life.
A boy is interested in toys while a man is interested in tools.
Everything appears as a toy to a boy but a man considers everything as a tool.
When a male figure starts bearing the responsibility of PRIESTHOOD, SHEPHERDING AND FATHERING he will become a man.
Priesthood: Building spiritual capacity and stamina to provide spiritual leadership and covering.
Shepherding : Ability to provide visionary leadership and direction.
Fatherhood : Provision and legacy.
It's not the growth of your ge****ls that strengthens your manliness but how much you can think for yourself in order to be correct, current and complete.
A boy thinks about women but a man for a woman in his life for effective and productive conjugality.
A boy cries at his mistakes while a man draws strength from his mistakes.
A boy seeks sympathizers while a man seeks mentors and instructors.
A boy thinks momentarily but a man thinks for a generation.
Finally, you need to know that only a man bears the covenant for his generation and family.
Grow and keep growing in understanding of the dignity and divine expectations of manhood.
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