NIFES TSU Jalingo

30/10/2024

How Nice It Could Be To Have A Look Again And Again At People, Things And Situations We Had Wrongly Judged On The Burst Of Emotions.Sometimes Drawing Closer May Help Change Certain Views We Have Held.

19/09/2024

We Should Be Able To Close Our Eyes To Somethings, Not All Misbehaviours Requires Punishment, Some Will Need Encouragement, Some Mentoring And Some Monitoring.... Be A Person That Inspires And Motivates Your Protégés..

19/09/2024

We Should Be Able To Close Our Eyes To Somethings, Not All Misbehaviours Requires Punishment, Some Will Need Encouragement, Some Mentoring And Some Monitoring.... Be A Person That Inspired And Motivates Your Protégés..

18/06/2024

They interviewed the founder of Dubai, Sheikh Rashid Al-Makthoum, about his country's future.

He said:

"My grandfather rode a camel, my father rode a camel. I drive a Mercedes, my son drives a Land Rover, and my grandson will drive a Land Rover, but my great-grandson will have to ride a camel again...”

"Why?"

“Hard times create strong men, strong men create easy times. Easy times create weak men, weak men create hard times. Many won't understand, but we need to raise warriors, not parasites.”

Man activity is destroying the 🌎

02/06/2024

INTEGRITY

A Woman Walks Into A Butchery Just Before Closing and Asks, "Do You Still Have Chicken?"

The Butcher Opens His Deep Freezer, Takes Out The Only Chicken Left and Puts It On The Scale, And It Weighed 1.5 kg.

The Woman Looks At The Chicken and At The Scale And Asked, "Do You Have One That's a Bit Bigger Than This One?"

The Butcher Puts His Only Chicken Back Into The Freezer, and Then Takes It Out Again, But This Time When He Puts It On The Scale; He Craftily Keeps His Thumb on The Scale Pan And The Scale Now Showed 2 kg

"That's Wonderful," Said The Woman. "I'll Take Both Chickens, Please!"

In a Situation Like This, You Realize That Your Integrity and Your Reputation are on The Line. Your Wisdom Becomes Foolishness and Your Cunning ways Become Stupidity.

As I Write This, The Butcher's Head is still Inside The Big Deep Feezer Looking For The First Chicken 🐓

Remember:
Always Tell The Truth and You Will Be Free !!!

A Good Name Is Better Than Riches.

Live To Express Yourself Truthfully and Not To Impress Others.

29/05/2024

The Company You Keep Determines What Accompanies You...Bishop David Abioye

19/05/2024

You Don't Have Enough Excuse To Justify YourSelf....Pastor Courage Ode

27/04/2024

"With Sincerity Of Heart We Pray, That You The Eternal Father Will Help Our Frailty...." Psalm 121:1-2

13/04/2024

The Cockroach Theory

The cockroach theory for self-development

At a restaurant, a cockroach suddenly flew from somewhere and sat on a lady.

She started screaming out of fear.

With a panic-stricken face and trembling voice, she started jumping, with both her hands desperately trying to get rid of the cockroach.

Her reaction was contagious, as everyone in her group also got panicky.

The lady finally managed to push the cockroach away but ...it landed on another lady in the group.

Now, it was the turn of the other lady in the group to continue the drama.

The waiter rushed forward to their rescue.

In the relay of throwing, the cockroach next fell upon the waiter.

The waiter stood firm, composed himself and observed the behaviour of the cockroach on his shirt.

When he was confident enough, he grabbed it with his fingers and threw it out of the restaurant.

Sipping my coffee and watching the amusement, the antenna of my mind picked up a few thoughts and started wondering, was the cockroach responsible for their histrionic behaviour?

If so, then why was the waiter not disturbed?

He handled it near to perfection, without any chaos.

It is not the cockroach, but the inability of those people to handle the disturbance caused by the cockroach, that disturbed the ladies.

I realized that it is not the shouting of my father or my boss or my wife that disturbs me, but it's my inability to handle the disturbances caused by their shouting that disturbs me.

It's not the traffic jams on the road that disturbs me, but my inability to handle the disturbance caused by the traffic jam that disturbs me.

More than the problem, it's my reaction to the problem that creates chaos in my life.

Lessons learnt from the story:

I understood I should not react in life.

I should always respond.

The women reacted, whereas the waiter responded.

Reactions are always instinctive whereas responses are always well thought of.

A beautiful way to understand

LIFE.

The HAPPY person is not because Everything is RIGHT in his Life.

He is HAPPY because his Attitude towards Everything in his Life is Right!

08/04/2024

We Need To Practice More Giving, Because Some Of The Things We Consider Small Can Be Someone Else's Great Blessing When Given To Them.

22/03/2024

06/12/2023