12/02/2016
Don't lose your faith because of Valentine.
It is my responsibility as one set over this house of God, House of KHC to bring you a word, a warning and an encouragement as regards the coming Valentine's Day.
That day was intended to be a day for celebration of love from human perspective, (there is a much darker and brutal history about Valentine day, which I don’t want to go into now) but I believe, as the devil would always do, the day has been hijacked for several attacks especially at believers.
The scriptures aptly tells us that
2Co 2:11 (KJV) Lest Satan should get an advantage of us: for we are not ignorant of his devices.
We should not be ignorant of the devil's devices.
I will quickly write this morning to three categories of people as led of God.
1. Those who are not in a relationship
2. Those who are in courtship
3. Married Couples
1. Those who are not in a relationship
You will have a lot of pressure around this time and particularly on that day if you lack God-confidence.
It is around this time that the devil will suggest to you that something is wrong with you. Your friends will not help matters as they discuss how they will spend that day with that special someone!
Some will even tell you that they are about to gladly lose their virginity on that day!
They would make comments like, “Are you telling me that you have no Val?
Last time I checked my Bible, I didn't see there that “Thou must celebrate Valentine day,” or Thou must have a Valentine lover.”
If you have nobody to take you out on that day, take yourself out if you must go out! Otherwise, stay at home, and turn that “pain” into prayer time with God!
Look for a church where a talk or programme is going on and be a part rather than sulk at home. At our church in Ibadan, it is a day of concert, teachings, and partying… or else we would could unwittingly allow the fox to tamper with the young lambs…
The reason most believers get their faith messed up on that day is because they are lonely and have nowhere to go, they simply dress up and follow someone to a place they will later regret.
It is on record that the most sexual perversion are perpetrated on
valentine day. The most hearts are broken, and the most cheating takes place.
As children of God, we should not allow the world to enter into us.
Don't stay with someone alone in the room on that day! The demons behind lust and perversion are on over drive on that day. Compromise is easiest in that day.
And one night of Valentine had left a lot of people bound to the altar of compromise and lust thereafter, even years after.
Do not go out with somebody who has been asking you for jeru trap before. That day, he is more than prepared to desecrate you.
Beware of girlfriends who have been asking you directly for jeru trap. That day, she is more than ready to seduce you and make your knees weaken before Baal.
That day is not a day to decide to just go out with that man who is married! What will a man who is married be doing with a single lady on Valentine day! He has only one thing in mind, and if he has to use drugs, he would! Be careful.
Valentine day is not a day to meet someone in a Guest house for a business meeting. The business meeting will end up being a senseless and a useless meeting.
Kindly tell the married man, “Sir, you are supposed to be with your wife that day!”
Don’t give attention to such destiny destroyers, who will promise you heaven and earth but will end up slowing your destiny down. May your path not cross with such people!
One mistake on that day can lead to many years of regrets. That day is not a day to allow somebody you barely know to start kissing you because it's Valentine day. There are people you kiss once and your jaw are locked forever. It took only one kiss from Judas for Jesus to be sold! Do not sell your destiny because of pressures of Valentine’s day.
Let God know that you are indeed ready for that man, that woman that is meant for you by your maturity on that day.
Prove to God on that day that you are secure in Him and that you trust Him as your Shepherd and that He will not abandon you!
Also, that day might be a day that someone is planning to ask you out! That is okay as long as he is a believer. But don't ever make a mistake of following him to his house.
When you follow a guy home on the Valentine’s day, he will sleep with you! You don't need a word of knowledge to know that.
He is at his weakest point on that day! And you are too! So two emotionally weak people on a Valentine’s day have finished themselves!
Do not follow him or her to the house, guest house, or some secluded place!
Again a lady might ask that you take her out on that day. There is no problem with that, but you should know that she is already giving you a “Yes” even before proposing. Do not propose under duress if you are not led of God to do so.
It is better to keep your mouth shut than to express some love that is not coming from your heart only to break the sister’s heart later by saying, God is not leading me!
I think I should stop here this morning. Tomorrow, I will continue by writing to those who are in courtship and those that are married.
I want you to know that “Val” on “No Val,” with it or without it, God has a plan for you and nobody, nothing, can stop that plan, except you! Do not allow Valentine day to tamper with the greatness that lies ahead of you.
You will still get married, you will raise a great family, you will be used of God mightily. Be filled with joy that day and every other day, do not allow pressures from people or environment to steal your joy!
Protect your joy and be grateful to God that you are still alive! The dead do not even have a Valentine’ day! But that you are still alive and well is an indication that God has a plan for you and that plan will come to pass in Jesus name!
Stay strong, stay encouraged, God has a plan for you!
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CONFESSION FOR THE DAY
I am secure in God
PRAYER FOR DAY
Lord, keep me from falling in Jesus name
THOUGHT FOR THE DAY
2Co 2:11 (AMP) To keep Satan from getting the advantage over us; for we are not ignorant of his wiles and intentions.
ACTION PLAN FOR THE DAY by
Decide to protect your joy
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Exodus 30 - 32
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