24/10/2025
ARE MEN DISTURBING YOU AT THIS STAGE ? THEN READ THIS.......
If you are a young girl in your early 20's or so, and it seems men can't stop disturbing you everyday.
Every of them wants to have you as his girlfriend and saying no to them never seems to be enough reason to stop them.
Just relax.
There's nothing wrong with that.
It's a normal thing darling.
Yes, it's a normal thing to get attracted to men especially at that very stage of your life.
The reason is because, your body structures at this stage,are all looking so attractive and irresistible to them. Your curves, your breast, your face, your....... Infact,at this stage, you are stainless......
So, you can't stop them....but you can actually help them. Yes, you can actually help them avoid this temptation by not putting on what arouses their sexual urge towards you.
Note this; this men coming to you at this stage, aren't coming to marry you but to test what is beneath....... Though,most of them will promise you marriage as usual,but you need to know that, there's something attracting their attention. Once they get it, they're off !
It is usually at this stage that, many girls get deflowered, which may even result to pregnancy, contacting of sexual transmitted diseases and........... While most of them are taught how to practice lesbianism.....as a way of satisfying themselves to avoid doing anything further with men......
Therefore,it is very important to note that this stage will always come in your life but how you handle it will not only save you from getting messed up but also, from luring many men into mess.
📌Dress properly.
Yes I know you now have good shape.
Your bre*st are looking so attractive. And there's this desire to show them off.... but dear, don't ! Instead, dress well. Cover up.This can minimize the number of men that approach to you. Of course, how you dress attracts certain kinds of men not all men.
📌Remember, knowing that being admired by men especially at this stage is a normal thing,not necessarily because you are the most beautiful girl in town,will also,save you from being flattered and gets carried away.......All you need to do is to be conscious of how you dress, very important!
📌 Again, this is not a time to claim hard, by being so rude and disrespectful to men. Of course, you can't scare them away this way.
Infact, you can only push them to forcely do it with you........... Be gentle,be respectful. Yes, you can be so gentle with men, very soft and still have boundaries. Let them know you aren't interested in that relationship but in a polite way. After all,it isn't actually their faults. You are now looking more attractive to them and of course, they'll always wanna try........
📌Avoid giving out your number to random men: As many of them are demanding for your number,be strict with it. This will also save you from being distracted by them. Nor having to keep conversations that can pollute your mind.
📌Keep bad friends far away from you: A good number of girls who gets into sexual acts at this stage,are influenced by their friends,who may or may not have done such a thing, but have advised them wrongly........ They'll encourage them to keep boyfriends whereas,they themselves may have none. At this stage,if you desire to maintain sexual purity, pursue after godly friends........
PS: every lady wants to be admired by men but understanding that you mustn't have to mess up when admired by these men is a great virtue.You can be a fine girl, very respectful, gentle, kind..... and still be responsible,strict and exceptional !
May the Lord give us understanding
You are loved ❤️
I counsel, mentor and coach young Christian and Teen on relationship/ marriage matters.
