14/09/2024
Here's what you need to understand...
If someone decides to walk away from you because you've tried to have a conversation about how you feel because of the way they're treating you, neglecting you, or disrespecting you;
they were never ever interested in being respectful towards you anyway...
Not only that, but they were gaslighting you into believing that they actually cared, or that they actually loved you.
If you've had to say the same thing to someone time and time again, and you have to keep explaining to them how it upsets you time and time again; that's not a misunderstanding, that's disrespect!
Don't be afraid of losing people who want to make a habit of being disrespectful towards you.
And don't think you did the wrong thing or made a mistake by asking to be treated with decency and respect...
The problem wasn't that you wanted to discuss their disrespect, it's the fact that they weren't even willing to discuss it or show empathy and compassion towards the way they've made you feel...
~ Mark Smith
copied from super powered mind.