17/06/2020
WHAT YOU ARE SUPPOSE TO KNOW BFORE VENTURING INTO MARRIAGE.
female suppose to be a helper. In other words, a woman at the beginning was a woman who was designed by God and equipped by God to help a male fulfill the assignment that God put him in his life to do(Vision). A woman is not the one who comes to destroy what the man's vision is. You don't want to marry a woman who comes to tell you how to run your life. You don't marry a man and detate on how he suppose to live. God said I will make for him a HELPER. Now a helper is not the one who runs the show. See, the reason marriages don't work is because we get a monster, a monster is any creature with two heads.
A wise woman helps are husband archive..
A good woman studies her husband. She doesn't irritate him, she doesn't criticise him. What a real woman does, she keep asking him questions. She tries to find out what his dream is, what is vision is, what is desires are... her goal is to study him!
Sweetheart what are you going to do in the next 10years?
Honey, how do you see us developing our children?
Keep asking questions because you want to get what his vision are...
Most women come home.. "where have you been, what's wrong with you, you are worse than my daddy"...That's a stupid woman!
A woman from the beginning is a HELPER and you can't help somebody who you do not know his assignment. Even if your husband is not the ideal man, you are suppose to help him become that. Maybe he doesn't know the Bible like you, in devotions, you say to him "why can't you find corinthians?".... you are not helping the guy, you are demining his ego, you are destroying his pride.
The Bible says a woman build her house with her hands but tears it down with her mouth.
The Holy Spirit is called the very same thing a woman is called "paracleter" which means the one who comes along side to help. So, the Holy Spirit does not take over your life, He never does... He always comes to help you do what you are doing. That's why is not