08/09/2025
BIG BROTHER NAIJA: A SPIRITUAL PERSPECTIVE
By Rev. Fr. Augustine Chukwuebuka Nnadi.
(I wrote this article in 2017 after watching my first and last Big brother edition, when the episode had a little bit of sanity and morals to showcase)
In spite of my tight schedule as a priest and teacher, I was able to follow the just concluded Big Brother NAIJA from the daily analysis given by DSTV through the African Magic Showcase channel. From a personal point of view, I learnt a lot from it except for those aspects which tend to project immorality in the minds of the youth. I am totally against such ungodly actions. Again, the spirituality of those that participated in the show was underplayed. There was nothing like any serious prayer session. Of all the celebrities and people who visted the housemates, no person was invited to attend to their spiritual life. It was as if they went on a spiritual holiday except for few instances when Efe was found praying himself out of eviction. However, there are a lot of spiritual lessons to be derived from the show. It is my own way of using the Big Brother NAIJA to preach the Gospel.
1. Big Brother : He saw and controlled everything happening in the house. He was invisible to the housemates but he communicated with the housemates through his voice. The housemates kept every instruction from the Big Brother without hesitation. No one in the house dared to disobey the Big Brother. He gave the daily tasks to the housemates and rewarded those who distinguished themselves. In general, the Big Brother was in charge of all. He acted behind the scenes.
Spiritual Lesson: The Big Brother is a figure of Jesus Christ who sees and controls everything happening in the world. Jesus is invisible to us but he communicates to us on daily basis through the Word of God in the scriptures. The instructions of Jesus are meant to be obeyed without hesitation. Christians are called to obey and trust Jesus because there is no other way to be happy in Him. Jesus gives daily tasks to Christians and always rewards those who accomplish the tasks. In general, Jesus is the King of the Universe.
2. The Housemates: They were the inhabitants of the house. They came into the house individually from different parts of the country. There in the house, they obeyed the instructions of the Big Brother whom they had not seen. They learnt how to live and work together. At a point, they got attached to one another and expressed their emotions. They lived as one family though each one had the target in mind which was to emerge the winner at the end. The housemates were being judged in accordance with their comportments in the house. Some were voted out on this basis, and got evicted from the house. Though they never met before, the housemates were left in sorrow and tears whenever one of them got evicted. Eviction was inevitable for the housemates. Housemates were evicted on weekly basis. There were great suspense during the evictions, and the housemates were always left with uncertainty. Only Big Brother had the knowledge of the voting results from the viewers. Those who were evicted went out and started watching everything from outside while the show continued. They were admired by people depending on how they lived during their stay in the house.
Spiritual Lesson: Each and every one of us living in the world is like a housemate. We came into the world individually and met ourselves. We become attached to our loved ones, and try to obey God's commandments. We have a target to make heaven. Death is like eviction. When a loved one dies, he or she has been evicted. People shed tears for them while they would be watching the world wherever they are. No one is certain about his or her time of death. People die everyday but no one knows who and who would die at a particular time. The dead continue to exist even when they could not be seen by their loved ones. The dead are remembered and admired depending on their good lives here on earth, and how they imparted on the lives of their beloved ones.
3. The Diary Session: Occasionally, the Big Brother invited the housemates individually into the diary room by announcing it openly. The Diary Session was a very important moment for the housemates because it afforded them the opportunity to interact with the Big Brother one on one, though the Big Brother remained invisible to them. During the sessions, personal matters were discussed as it touched the housemates individually. The housemates on a personal level, made request to Big Brother. The Big Brother consoled, praised, and even reprimanded the housemates during the diary sessions. It was indeed a moment of personal encounter between Big Brother and the housemates.
Spiritual Lesson: Prayer is like a diary session which affords Christians opportunity to interact with Jesus personally. Unlike the Big Brother, Jesus is always inviting us into the diary room which is the innermost part of our heart. It is very important in the life of every Christian. During prayers, we discuss our personal matters with Jesus, feel his love and consolation, which encourage us to forge ahead with life.
4. Ninjas: They were masked men and women who came into the house at any point in time to serve the housemates and deliver messages from the Big Brother. The Ninjas were messengers from the Big Brother. They kept the house in order while the housemates were asleep and helped to set the stage for the daily tasks. Their main job was serving the housemates.
Spiritual Lesson: The angels of God are like the Ninjas who serve us and deliver God's messages to us. They help us in order to accomplish our daily spiritual tasks. The angels are messengers from God who are always at our service. God assigns a guardian angel to each and every one of us.
5. The Target: All the housemates were struggling for one target: N25 Million and an SUV car. Only one person emerged as the winner. It was just like a game. At the end, Efe got the target. However, other housemates gained one thing or the other depending on how they played their games. At least, all of them are now celebrities who have the capacity of engaging in any venture and become successful because people would always support them. The show had brought the housemates to the limelight. Efe was a nobody before he came into the house, but he emerged as a celebrity.
Spiritual Lesson: In 1 Corinthians 9:24-25, Paul stated clearly that just as the runners at the stadium are trying to win an earthly prize, Christians must struggle to win an everlasting prize which is heaven. Thus, heaven is our target. That was the summary of the famous song by Lara George, "Ijoba Orun". Unlike the Big Brother, there is not only one winner and one prize. All those who strive to the end would be winners and would be rewarded accordingly. No matter your background, colour, race, tribe or religion, heaven is our target. We all could make heaven if we live good lives.
6. The voice of the street: Efe , who became the winner of this Big Brother NAIJA, represented the voice of the street. He was an ordinary Warri man without extravagant portfolio. However, he got more fans, whose greater percentage were the ordinary citizens, whom Karl Marx would call the proletariat, the working class or the lower class as against the bourgeois. These are the anarwims of the society. They constitute the larger body of the society. Majority of the votes that made Efe the winner of Big Brother, came from the lower class of the society.
Spiritual Lesson: In Matthew 25:31 -45, Jesus made it clear that the criterion to inherit the Kingdom of God is one's attentiveness to the needs of the poor. In other words, Christians must be the voices of the poor and the oppressed if they are to win the heavenly target. From the beginning of his earthly ministry, Jesus identified himself with the poor. Therefore, we can lose our target if we fail to pay attention to the cries and sufferings of the poor masses. Our society must never neglect the voices of the street.
7. The Rosary: As a Catholic Priest, who is very devoted to the Blessed Virgin Mary, I was touched by the way Efe carried his Marian devotion into the Big Brother house. Efe was always seen with his Rosary on his neck. It was not just as a fashion just like most celebrities do, he had a devotion to it. On one occasion, he was up for eviction, he signed himself with the Rosary and with a bible in his hand. As a priest, I was attracted to such gesture, and that moment, Efe became my favourite in the Big Brother. I even went as far as voting for him because I felt he deserved to win. However, the point I am trying to make is that Efe has a strong attachment to his Rosary.
Spiritual Lesson: From my personal experience as a Catholic priest, the Rosary, is a strong weapon of spiritual warfare. I have been able to achieve great things through the power of the Rosary. Saying my Rosary on a daily basis have enabled me to overcome certain temptations and even spiritual attacks. Our Lady told the little children at Fatima, "With the Rosary and the Scapula, I will save the world". All through my life, I have never had an accident, not even a scratch on my car or body. I always say my Rosary once I am travelling, and I have the Rosary suspended on the inner mirror of my car. The power of the Rosary can never be overemphasised. Our Blessed Mother always intercedes for her beloved children.
Conclusion: Based on logistics, I decided to write this article to draw the minds of our youths to the main and ultimate Biggest Brother, our Lord Jesus Christ. Everyone is a fellow housemates. We are advised to listen to the instructions of our Biggest Brother who is always speaking to us through the Word of God. We should not ever lose focus of our heavenly target. Anyone could be evicted at any time. We must always get prepared for eviction. The worst thing that could happen to anyone is to be evicted without being prepared. That is what I call untimely or sudden death. To prepare oneself for eviction is to be in union with God always. Even if anyone that is very dear to us gets evicted at any point in time, life continues. We should never allow such bereavement to make us lose focus of our own target. We shall all see our loved ones in great joy at the end when we would behold our Biggest Brother face to face.
God bless you my beloved people of God.
Fr. Austin Ebuka Nnadi prays for you.