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20/08/2023

I was summoned suddenly to the hospital after almost three years of separation. He was on the sick bed, seeing each other again, reminded me of the many dreams I've had about him and how i was the one telling him I don't have anything against him again.
I did the same, he was calm, he responded positively to everything I said to him, I apologized for the wrongs I did, which was to call the cops, I told him the devil did us great evil and we can start all over again.
I asked if I should go home and make food for him, he said yes, oh, what a joy! I miss cooking for him, 😢 I told him, our kids are fine and standing by him on the bedside was my 13yrs old, and I said, I never fought you back, I've been waiting and hoping that all this war will end oneday.
The SW said he was okay that I came,
There's a me that's feeling hopeful that he's going to come back home and all shall be well again.
Only for me to be called again late night that he died. I was confused, I ran to the hospital confused, my sight became blurry, and I couldn't imagine me seeing him dead. I was hoping we would talk about everything and how much I had learned and suffered alone with the kids.
I was hoping I would get the opportunity to tell him, he hurt me so much and made me suffer like a criminal that I wasn't. My head went blank.
I had bladder loose.
I couldn't comprehend anything. I was numb.
I was summoned to pick up his body. Where do I go from here, koyemi.
I was handed over all his house keys, car keys, credit cards, everything!!!
Still in shock, I visited his home to move his stuff back home, and my heart kept breaking as many things were being revealed at that time.
He has different types of concoctions sent to him from nigeria by his families that he's been taking, which led to his kidney damage.
I realized I'm the one who often scrutinized his intakes.
12 years of marriage, he never visited the hospital or had any course to be admitted.
I began to hear many things.
I have questions I couldn't answer.
It feels like the enemy planned it all out. During his burial, I saw his eyelids moved, oh, I was going to say, "Prince, oya get up, let's go home."
I realized that despite all that happ
I realized that despite all that happened, at the end of it all, he was my responsibility to care for after he died.
I said to myself, where are all the people who encouraged him to wage war against his only family? They are nowhere to be found.
We are by ourselves now! Me, him, and his kids.
This is family! Never allow anyone in your marriage. When it's all done and clear, it's gonna be you and him and your kids. There's no one else again who's as important as your wife/husband. Only my signature was accepted, I was told you're his next of kin, and he didn't change anything despite his rage.
My heart kept aching.
Nobody else matters at this moment, but his family. Please don't let love and forgiveness diminish from your home, no matter how bad the situation looks. We only know the beginning of war, but we never know the end of it.
I thank God I was able to speak to him, I told him, I never fought you, despite all that you did to me.
He was quiet, I told him, "I do call you, but you don't answer my call.
But, it's fine, let's forget all that happens and move on. But he chose to go REST from it all.
Adieu Adewale
COPIED

12/08/2023

31/07/2023

May you find favor and blessings this week .

28/07/2023

*41 THINGS TO TELL YOUR DAUGHTER*

ABOUT LIFE URGENTLY(updated)
by bisi adewale
1: Tell your daughter that Money has no gender. She can make money the way any man can make it and even more.
2: Tell her to step into the FIELD, not the BED, to make money. Money from the field comes with dignity. Money from the Bed comes with STD.
3: Let your daughter know that she need to trade her brain, not her privates, to make money.
4: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a rich man, but to work to become a rich girl
5: Train your daughter never to pray to marry a Governor but to work to become the President
6: Train your daughter that the instrument of money making is under the Hat, not under the skirt
7: Train your Daughter never to a Man-hunt but to focus her focus, and she will become the focus of many men
8: Train your daughter that no man can love her like God, so she must never trade her relationship with God with a relationship with any man.
9: Train your daughter that internet will never forget or forgive. Let her know that the foolish post she makes on the internet can depose her from her post tomorrow.
10: Tell your daughter that time wait for no man, if she waste her time with a foolish man, she will wake up one day to discover that it is night time.
11: Tell your daughter that life gives back what you give into it. Wickedness will be fully repaid.
12: Tell your daughter that beauty is not in exposing nakedness. It is dressing to look like a Queen
13: Tell your daughter that she is a princess and not a pr******te. Tell her to dress to prove she is.
14: Tell your daughter that it is a great wickedness to sleep with the husband of another Woman,
15: let her know that married men do not love her. They only see her as available s*x toy to satisfy the animal in them
16: Let your daughter know that the best friend she can keep is God. He can not disappoint her.
17: Let your daughter know that beauty without brain makes one look like a Decorated pig.
18: Teach your daughter to believe in herself because she is capable of doing whatever she believes she can do
19: Teach your daughter never to think that wealth is s*xually transmitted. Sleeping with wealthy men will only make her a w***e not wealthy.
20: tell your daughter good look does not make a man a good Man. He can have 6 PACKS and be a PACK of trouble.
21: teach your daughter never to be a Run girl because run girls normally RUN into trouble.
22: Tell your daughter knowing Christ is non negotiable, She need CHRIST because the day of CRISIS
23: Tell your daughter time go fast and wait for no one, she should stop thinking she has time to waste, she should get up now before it is too late.
24: Tell your daughter nobody want to marry a liability, every man is looking for Help-meet not help-eat.
25: Tell your daughter she must have her own sources of income. A woman without her own sources of income will be embarrassed by her husband, in law and even her own Children
26: Tell your daughter it is not all that glitters that are gold Some May even be a ball of fire.
27: Tell your daughter her body is not for sale but to preserve it for the man that deserve it after her wedding.
28: Tell your daughter failure is not the end but a bend
29: Tell your daughter there is no height she can not attain, if she can just dare it
30: Tell your daughter courtship is not marriage, she can still let go any man with red flags.
31: Tell your daughter that a broken courtship is not a divorce she can still get out of relationship at any time before wedding.
32: Tell your daughter she is beautiful, if my guy tells her she is, she will say my Dad told me too.
33: Tell your daughter never o be run girl, because this will ruin her future not destiny.
34: Tell your daughter that Marriage is more important than Wedding, she should take more time to Prälate for marriage than wedding.
35: Tell your daughter Love is not enough for marriage, commitment, faithfulness, purity, contentment, communication, training etc are needed.
36: Tell your daughters that attitude is more than beauty
38: Tell your daughter Labour bring favour
39: Tell your daughter she is not to submit to Men but her husband
40: Tell your daughter that marriage choice making may bring PAIN OR GAIN
41: Tell your daughter that it is not all PROFFESOR of love that are POSSESSOR OF LOVE, He may say I love you he might actually mean I love s*x
Please Add your own in comments, I want us to increase this to 101. I appreciate all of you that contributed to this. Watch out for the Sons edition.
(Please share till it gets to all Parents and Daughters)

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27/07/2023

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A distant cousin of mine sent me a picture of a fine fair lady he had met online. I was online and was able to view the message he sent to me immediately.

I asked him who the lady was and he said she was his girlfriend. I asked him where he knew her from and he told me he had met her on one of the social media apps.

Then he sent a message to me.

"Bro, this girl is too fine."

I chuckled where I was.

I told him she was fine.

A week later my cousin called and told me he was coming to Jos from Asaba.

Very long journey.

I asked him why the sudden decision to travel. My mother was the only relation he once had in Jos. But now she lives in Abuja. So far, I am the only relation left here in Jos, and we never had any discussion about him coming to Jos.

So I asked him who he wanted to see.

He told me it was the girl. And that she lives in an area in Jos. Madaki Street to be Precise.

I told him I didn't know Madaki Street and that I have never even heard anyone talk about it. He sent me the supposed picture of the lady standing in the area.

I looked at the picture closely but nothing was linking.

I asked him if he will be sleeping at my side.

He said no.

He told me he and the girl had already sought accommodation. He will be living in her place for two weeks.

"Two full weeks?"

I screamed over the phone as we spoke.

He started laughing.

"Guy the girl loves me. She wants me to come and stay with her. Then she will come over to Asaba to stay with me."

Before he ended the call, he told me no one knew about this and that he was only telling me because he was coming to my state where I am based. So he wanted me to keep it a secret.

I told him I will.

When my friend came, I didn't know.

If he had left, I didn't know.

The few times I tried to call to find out, his lines were off.

Days later my mum called and told me that her younger brother was looking for his son. That was my cousin. And that he had told them he was going to camp, but after contacting camp, it was discovered he was not there.

Fear gripped me.

I asked when he left and was told he had just left two days ago.

I kept calling his number. Trying to reach him. But to no avail.

On the third day, I had to come out straight with the truth and the travel story of my cousin when the tension was rising.

His phone was tracked.

Yes, he was in Jos.

In a closed room in Jos.

But the room was in a village, located in a bush in Jos.

We tracked him till we got to the house.

My cousin was bonded with chains.

Stack Naked.

Weak.

Yet smiling.

He kept chanting.

"Ka*****ra... Ka*****ra."

His manhood was erect, with thick cm dripping down. It was mixed with blood.

No sign of a human was around. No sign of a lady.

We freed him and he was rushed to a hospital immediately.

It was while in the hospital that he told us that the lady he came to see changed into a dog on the first night and had s.*.x with him. Already he was bonded with a chain after agreeing to have an adventure with her.

He said the chains were never unlocked. And every night she returned to satisfy her desires as a dog and used him as she chose. Then she will leave as a dog.

I had already deleted pictures of the girl he sent me. And she made sure she deleted her pictures the moment he arrived. We had no face. No one to trace. Even the house was an abandoned farm house that was cleaned. Only my cousin and I had mental pictures in our heads. But how do we show them.

The matter died.

Many of us have embarked on this kind of journey because we trust so easily and because we are in search of adventure and love. Some are planning to. But be warned. Evil is in existence and it is so real.

Do not fall prey to the trap of the devil. Do not be used by demons, when you should have been used by God.

My name is Praises Chidera Obiora and I am the best at what I do.

22/06/2023

Today is the appointed day for your miracle and testimony 🙏