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City Of Rest Tv, 29b Orhionmwonbor Street off St Saviour Road, along 100feet by Tipper Garage Junction, Benin City (2026)

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29b Orhionmwonbor Street Off St Saviour Road, Along 100feet By Tipper Garage Junction

30/06/2026

MOMENT OF INTERVENTION WITH APOSTLE RAYMOND OKOCHA

30/06/2026

☆PASTOR'S WIVES AND THEIR DUTIES☆

Pastors' Wives and Their Duties

Introduction
The wife of a pastor occupies a unique position in the body of Christ. Although the Bible does not create a separate office called "pastor's wife," she is a vital partner in ministry and has a powerful influence on her husband, family, and the church. Her greatest calling is first to be a faithful disciple of Christ, a loving wife, and a godly example.

1. She Must Be a Woman of Prayer

A pastor faces many spiritual battles. His wife should be committed to praying consistently for him, his family, and the ministry.
1 Thessalonians 5:17
Ephesians 6:18

2. She Must Support Her Husband's Ministry

She should encourage her husband, stand with him during difficult seasons, and avoid becoming a source of discouragement.
Ecclesiastes 4:9–10
Genesis 2:18

3. She Must Be an Example of Godly Character

Church members often learn more from a leader's lifestyle than from sermons. A pastor's wife should demonstrate humility, holiness, kindness, and integrity.
Titus 2:3–5
Matthew 5:16

4. She Should Guard Her Home

A healthy ministry begins with a healthy family. She should help build a peaceful, loving, and Christ-centered home.
Proverbs 14:1
Joshua 24:15

5. She Should Love and Care for People

While she is not expected to solve everyone's problems, she should show compassion, hospitality, and genuine concern for others.
Romans 12:13
Hebrews 13:2

6. She Must Live with Wisdom and Discretion

She should avoid gossip, protect confidential information, and use her words to encourage rather than divide.
Proverbs 11:13
Ephesians 4:29

7. She Should Continue Growing Spiritually

A pastor's wife should not rely only on her husband's spirituality. She should maintain her own relationship with God through Bible study, prayer, and obedience.
2 Timothy 2:15
Psalm 1:2–3

8. She Should Respect Her Husband

Mutual love and respect strengthen both the family and the ministry.
Ephesians 5:22–24, 33
1 Peter 3:1–4

9. She Should Be a Peacemaker

She should promote unity in the church, avoid unnecessary conflicts, and encourage reconciliation among believers.
Matthew 5:9
Romans 12:18

10. She Must Remember That Her Identity Is in Christ

A pastor's wife should not feel pressured to meet every expectation people place on her. Her worth comes from her relationship with Jesus, not from public opinion.
Galatians 2:20
Colossians 3:3

☆Conclusion☆

A pastor's wife is a precious gift from God to her husband, family, and church. Her influence can strengthen or weaken a ministry. As she walks in prayer, humility, wisdom, love, and holiness, God will use her life to bless many people and bring glory to His name

30/06/2026

" IF ONLY THOSE WHO CLAIM YOU HURT THEM
KNEW HOW OFTEN THEY HAVE MADE YOU CRY SILENTLY"

Introduction
Life teaches us that not every hurt is visible. Sometimes the people who accuse you of hurting them may not realize how deeply they have wounded you. Many pastors, leaders, parents, spouses, and friends carry silent tears because they choose peace over arguments. As believers, God calls us to respond with grace rather than bitterness.

1. Not Every Pain Is Seen

Many people judge based on what they see without knowing the hidden battles you have fought.
Psalm 55:12–14
1 Samuel 1:10–16 (Hannah's silent sorrow)
Lesson: God sees the tears that people do not see. Your silent pain is not hidden from Him.

2. Sometimes Those You Love Hurt You the Most

David was betrayed by a close friend. Jesus was betrayed by Judas, one of His disciples.
Psalm 41:9
Matthew 26:47–50
Lesson: The deepest wounds often come from people closest to us. Yet we must not allow betrayal to destroy our love for God.

3. Silent Tears Are Precious Before God

Every tear shed in righteousness is recorded by God.
Psalm 56:8
Revelation 21:4
Lesson: People may misunderstand you, but God understands every silent cry.

4. Do Not Repay Hurt with Hurt

Even when misunderstood, choose forgiveness instead of revenge.
Romans 12:17–21
Matthew 5:44
Lesson: Your healing begins when you release bitterness and leave judgment to God.

5. Learn to Communicate with Wisdom

Sometimes relationships can be restored through humble and honest conversation.
Proverbs 15:1
Ephesians 4:29–32
Lesson: Gentle words heal wounds, while harsh words deepen them.

6. Let God Be Your Defender

You do not need to explain yourself to everyone. God knows the truth.
Exodus 14:14
Isaiah 54:17
Lesson: When your conscience is clear before God, trust Him to defend your name.

*Conclusion*

Some people may only remember the one moment you disappointed them while forgetting the many times you sacrificed, forgave, and stood by them. Do not become bitter because of misunderstanding. Continue to walk in love, integrity, and humility. God knows your heart, sees your silent tears, and will reward your faithfulness.

"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." — Psalm 34:18

29/06/2026

*PASTORS RELATIONSHIP WITH OPPOSITE S*X*

"Walking in Purity, Wisdom, and Integrity"

1 Timothy 5:1–2
"Do not rebuke an older man harshly, but exhort him as if he were your father... Treat older women as mothers, younger women as sisters, with absolute purity."
Proverbs 4:23
1 Thessalonians 5:22
1 Corinthians 6:18–20
2 Corinthians 8:21
Titus 2:7–8

Introduction
The pastoral office is a sacred calling that requires holiness, wisdom, and integrity. A pastor regularly ministers to people of the opposite s*x through counseling, visitation, prayer, and leadership. Because of this, pastors must establish biblical boundaries that protect their testimony, their family, the church, and the name of Christ.
Many ministries have been damaged not only by immoral acts but also by avoidable situations that created suspicion. Therefore, every pastor must strive to live above reproach (1 Timothy 3:2).

1. Relate with Absolute Purity

1 Timothy 5:1–2
Paul instructed Timothy to treat younger women as sisters and older women as mothers—with absolute purity.
A pastor should:
Maintain pure motives.
Avoid flirting or romantic behavior.
Speak respectfully and honorably.
See church members as souls entrusted to his care.
Lesson: Purity begins in the heart before it is seen in actions.

2. Avoid Every Appearance of Evil

1 Thessalonians 5:22
A pastor must avoid situations that could create misunderstanding or temptation.
Examples include:
Avoid being alone in secluded places with someone of the opposite s*x.
Avoid late-night private meetings unless absolutely necessary and with accountability.
Avoid unnecessary private chats or emotional dependence.
Your testimony is one of your greatest assets.

3. Set Healthy Boundaries

Proverbs 4:23
Boundaries are not signs of weakness; they are signs of wisdom.
Healthy boundaries include:
Hold counseling sessions in visible or appropriate settings.
When possible, involve another trusted church leader or the pastor's spouse in sensitive counseling.
Avoid inappropriate physical contact.
Keep communication professional and ministry-focused.

4. Guard Your Heart Against Emotional Affairs

Proverbs 4:23
Not every immoral relationship begins physically. Many begin emotionally.
Warning signs include:
Sharing intimate personal matters with someone other than your spouse.
Looking forward to private conversations with a particular person.
Keeping secrets from your spouse.
A pastor should invest emotionally first in his or her marriage and family.

5. Be Faithful to Your Marriage

Hebrews 13:4
Your spouse should be your closest companion.
Ways to protect your marriage:
Spend quality time together.
Be transparent.
Pray together.
Never compare your spouse with church members.
A strong marriage strengthens a pastor's ministry.

6. Maintain Accountability

Ecclesiastes 4:9–10
Every pastor needs accountability.
Have:
A spiritual father or mentor.
Trusted elders.
Financial and ministerial transparency.
Someone who can lovingly correct you.
No pastor is above accountability.

7. Remember That Your Life Is an Example

Titus 2:7–8
People watch not only your preaching but also your lifestyle.
Your conduct should:
Inspire confidence.
Protect the church from scandal.
Bring glory to Christ.
A good reputation opens doors for the Gospel.

*Consequences of Wrong Relationships*

*Loss of God's favor and anointing.
*Damaged family and marriage.
*Loss of credibility.
*Church division.
*Public disgrace.
*Hindrance to the Gospel.

*Keys to Maintaining Purity
Maintain a strong prayer life.*

*Study God's Word daily.
*Fast regularly.
*Walk in the fear of God.
*Be accountable.
*Avoid compromising environments.
*Love your spouse faithfully.
*Depend on the Holy Spirit.

*Conclusion*

A pastor's relationship with the opposite s*x should be characterized by holiness, wisdom, respect, and accountability. The goal is not only to avoid sin but also to preserve the integrity of Christ's ministry. As servants of God, we must live in such a way that our lives reflect the gospel we preach.

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29/06/2026

*ETHICS FOR INTERACTION WITH CHURCH MEMBERS*

Introduction
Every church worker, pastor, minister, or leader represents Christ. The way we relate to church members can either draw people closer to God or push them away. Christian ethics require that we treat every member with love, respect, humility, and integrity.

1. Treat Every Member with Love

John 13:34–35; Romans 12:10
Love should be the foundation of every interaction.
Avoid favoritism or discrimination.
Show kindness, patience, and compassion to everyone.
Lesson: People may forget your sermons, but they will remember how you treated them.

2. Respect Every Person

James 2:1–4; Philippians 2:3
Respect the rich and the poor alike.
Do not look down on anyone because of age, education, or social status.
Honour every member as someone created in God's image.

3. Speak with Grace

Colossians 4:6; Ephesians 4:29
Avoid harsh, insulting, or abusive words.
Correct people with gentleness.
Let your speech encourage and build others up.

4. Maintain Confidentiality

Proverbs 11:13
Do not expose members' private matters.
Never use confidential information as gossip or for personal advantage.
Be trustworthy.

5. Avoid Partiality

James 2:9
Do not give special treatment because of wealth, influence, or family background.
Serve everyone fairly.

6. Be Humble and Approachable

Philippians 2:5–8
Leadership is service, not pride.
Listen to members with patience.
Avoid arrogance and intimidation.

7. Avoid Financial Exploitation
1 Timothy 6:10
Never manipulate members for money.
Be transparent in financial dealings.
Encourage giving as an act of worship, not under pressure.

8. Maintain Moral Purity
1 Thessalonians 5:22; 1 Timothy 5:2
Keep healthy boundaries with the opposite s*x.
Avoid inappropriate relationships or behavior.
Protect your testimony.

9. Be Available to Serve

Mark 10:45
Be willing to pray, counsel, encourage, and support members.
Serve with joy rather than seeing ministry as a burden.

10. Be an Example Worth Following

1 Timothy 4:12; Titus 2:7
Lead by example in speech, conduct, love, faith, and purity.
Let your lifestyle match your message.

*Consequences of Unethical Conduct*

*Loss of trust from church members.
*Division and conflict in the church.
*Damage to the church's witness.
*God's discipline upon unfaithful leaders (James 3:1).

*Benefits of Ethical Conduct*

*Stronger relationships within the church.
*Greater unity and peace.
*Increased trust in leadership.
*Spiritual growth and church expansion.
*God's favour and reward.

NOTE:

Church members are God's flock entrusted to our care. We must interact with them in a manner that reflects the character of Jesus Christ.

*CONCLUSION*

Ethical conduct is not optional—it is a requirement for everyone who serves in God's house.

29/06/2026

Come and Experience the power of the Holy Ghost

28/06/2026

Sunday Worship Service With Apst Raymond Okocha || 28th June 2026

TOPIC: BUY YOUR TOMORROW

Text: Proverbs 22:29; Ecclesiastes 12:1; Galatians 6:7-9

Introduction
Tomorrow is not built on wishes, but on today's decisions. Every young person has the opportunity to create a better future through godly choices, discipline, and hard work. The seeds you sow today determine the harvest you will reap tomorrow. Youth is the best season to invest in your future spiritually, mentally, financially, and morally.
Your tomorrow is in your hands. If you refuse to purchase your tomorrow, you will suffer in your old age. What we call tomorrow is today. Your input determines your output. Don't trade with your tomorrow.

1. Buy Your Tomorrow by Giving Your Life to Christ.
Matthew 6:33; 2 Corinthians 5:17
Your relationship with God is the greatest investment you can make in your life. A life surrendered to Christ has divine direction, protection, and purpose. When you embrace Christ early you will have a sustainable result in the future. Let your life be a reflection of Christ in every area of your life. The highest life you can live is a life of Christ.

2. Buy Your Tomorrow
Through Education and Learning.
Proverbs 1:5; Proverbs 18:15
Knowledge increases opportunities. Learn a skill, pursue education, read good books, and develop yourself continuously.
There is no learning that's a waste. Educate yourself and learn a trade, in so doing you are purchasing your future.

3. Buy Your Tomorrow Through Hard Work.
Proverbs 10:4; Proverbs 14:23
There is no substitute for diligence. Avoid laziness and embrace excellence in everything you do. Hard work pays.

4. Buy Your Tomorrow by Living a Holy Life.
1 Timothy 4:12; 2 Timothy 2:22
Avoid s*xual immorality, drug abuse, cultism, fraud, and every form of sin that destroys destinies.
The fact that everybody is doing it doesn't make it right.

5. Buy Your Tomorrow Through Prayer and God's Word.
Joshua 1:8; Luke 18:1
Prayer brings divine guidance and strength, while God's Word gives wisdom for daily living.
Prayer helps you to build your future. The word of God helps you to sharpen your life.

6. Buy Your Tomorrow by Choosing Good Friends.
Proverbs 13:20; 1 Corinthians 15:33
Your friends influence your character and your future. Walk with people who encourage your faith and purpose.
Don't allow your friends to influence you, influence your friends. Friendship is a choice. Your friends are a reflection of who you are.

7. Buy Your Tomorrow Through Good Character. Proverbs 22:1; Psalm 15:1-2
Integrity, honesty, humility, and faithfulness open doors that talent alone cannot open.

8. Buy Your Tomorrow by Managing Money Wisely. Proverbs 21:20; Luke 16:10
Develop the habit of saving, budgeting, avoiding unnecessary debt, and being faithful with little. Don't live above your means.

9. Buy Your Tomorrow by Serving God Faithfully. Matthew 6:33; Psalm 84:11
Faithful service to God attracts His favour, promotion, and blessings.

10. Buy Your Tomorrow by Having a Vision. Habakkuk 2:2-3; Proverbs 29:18
Set godly goals, write them down, and pursue them with determination and faith. A vision is what you want to become, it also means what you are aiming at.

NOTE:
The future is not accidental; it is intentional. Every decision you make today is a seed for tomorrow. Choose Christ, pursue wisdom, work diligently, live holy, pray consistently, build godly relationships, and serve God faithfully. If you invest wisely today, you will enjoy a glorious tomorrow.

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