24/05/2026
Sunday Breakthrough Service || Abide In Christ || Divine Order In Marriage 2 || Apst Rev {Mrs} Ikuewanbhor L.O
Genesis 2:18
“And the Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him an help meet for him.”
Marriage was ordained by God to destroy loneliness and build genuine companionship between a man and his wife. Sadly, in many homes today, couples live together without communication, all in the name of quarrels and misunderstandings. Hatred has gradually found its way into many marriages.
As long as you have chosen someone to be part of your life, there should always be love, regard, and respect for that person, whether a brother, sister, wife, or husband. Though advancement in today’s world has helped in many ways, it has also spoiled many values in marriage.
Ephesians 5:22-27
The Bible instructs wives to submit themselves unto their own husbands as unto the Lord. This submission should not depend on whether the husband is rich or poor; it is a direct instruction from God.
Submissiveness includes:
• Love
• Respect
• Loyalty
Ephesians 5:24
“Therefore as the church is subject unto Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything.”
The Bible specifically says “in everything.” Many see this as difficult, especially in areas concerning finance, where some believe it is only the husband’s responsibility. But marriage requires understanding, support, and unity.
If a woman knows she cannot submit to a man, then there is no need for marriage.
Ephesians 5:26
“That he might sanctify and cleanse it with the washing of water by the word.”
To the husband, it is your responsibility to correct, teach, and help your wife become better in character and behavior. This sanctification and cleansing should be done in love, through encouragement, advice, and understanding.
A husband is not meant to be a boss, but a leader. Your wife should not be afraid of your presence; she should find comfort, peace, and confidence around you.
For the children:
(Ephesians 6:1-3)
Children are instructed to obey their parents, for obedience is a sign of love and regard. Parents, on the other hand, should never push their children into ungodly acts all in the name of wealth, fame, or success. Instructions given to children should be godly and purposeful.
Parents should also not overlook the wrong behaviors of their children. Correction, guidance, and discipline are necessary for proper upbringing.
Divine order in marriage can only stand where there is love, submission, leadership, obedience, and godliness. When every member of the family understands and plays their role according to God’s word, peace, unity, and joy will reign in the home.
