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Aameen
01/03/2026

Aameen

People let you down, Allaah picks you up.๐Ÿฅ€๐Ÿ–ค
22/02/2026

People let you down, Allaah picks you up.๐Ÿฅ€๐Ÿ–ค

22/02/2026

Donโ€™t be too hard on yourself. Perfection belongs to Allaah alone. Just keep trying.

Aameen โค๏ธ
17/02/2026

Aameen โค๏ธ

16/02/2026

One of the hardest forms of pain is the pain that comes from those closest to us, a spouse, a child, a sibling, or someone of similar nearness.

Many hearts struggle to bear this kind of hurt, especially when they feel their rights have been met with injustice, betrayal, and harm.

In moments like these, people often believe that forgiveness is impossible, that this is a place where pardon and mercy simply cannot exist. Yet Allah reminds us:

ูŠูŽุง ุฃูŽูŠู‘ูู‡ูŽุง ุงู„ู‘ูŽุฐููŠู†ูŽ ุขู…ูŽู†ููˆุง ุฅูู†ู‘ูŽ ู…ูู†ู’ ุฃูŽุฒู’ูˆูŽุงุฌููƒูู…ู’ ูˆูŽุฃูŽูˆู’ู„ูŽุงุฏููƒูู…ู’ ุนูŽุฏููˆู‘ู‹ุง ู„ู‘ูŽูƒูู…ู’ ููŽุงุญู’ุฐูŽุฑููˆู‡ูู…ู’ ูˆูŽุฅูู† ุชูŽุนู’ูููˆุง ูˆูŽุชูŽุตู’ููŽุญููˆุง ูˆูŽุชูŽุบู’ููุฑููˆุง ููŽุฅูู†ู‘ูŽ ุงู„ู„ู‘ูŽู‡ูŽ ุบูŽูููˆุฑูŒ ุฑู‘ูŽุญููŠู…ูŒ
O you who believe, indeed, some of your spouses and children are enemies to you, so beware of them. But if you pardon, overlook, and forgive (their faults), then surely Allah is All Forgiving, Most Merciful. (Surah At-Taghabun: 14).

This verse doesnโ€™t deny the pain, it acknowledges it. But it lifts our gaze higher, toward a strength greater than anger and retaliation.

Forgiveness here is courage and trusting that when you forgive for the sake of Allah, He fills what was broken with His mercy.

Sometimes the greatest victory is letting it go, so your heart can finally breathe again.

_Sheikh Abu Bakr Zoud โœ๏ธ

Love in nikkah ,built in loyalty and trust ๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค
14/02/2026

Love in nikkah ,built in loyalty and trust ๐Ÿค๐Ÿค๐Ÿค

ุขู…ูŠู† ูŠุง ุฑุจ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…ูŠู†๐Ÿคฒ๐Ÿคฒ
06/02/2026

ุขู…ูŠู† ูŠุง ุฑุจ ุงู„ุนุงู„ู…ูŠู†๐Ÿคฒ๐Ÿคฒ

05/02/2026

Empathy: Something we, as husbands have forgotten how to show....or perhaps, we didn't forget, but many just never learnt it for wives.

So,

Wife is ill - can't be bothered.

She is pregnant (especially from the second) - she's not the first so please don't make a big issue out of it. Can't be bothered.

She goes on a trip - She'll be fine. Can't be bothered.

She is stressed from working the home - It's her duty, can't be bothered.

Worried about an outcome - Can't be bothered.

Needs a hug and reassurance that everything would be okay - We all have have issues. Can't be bothered.

Needs help - Can't be bothered.

Needs attention - Too needy. Can't be bothered.

Confused - Can't you just get it once? Can't be bothered.

Needs help caring for her folks - I have folks too. Can't be bothered.

Appears pi**ed off - Don't want trouble. Can't be bothered.

Menstrual cramps - Sorry, what? Can't be bothered.

On the flip side though, we get a lot of it when we break down, become like needy babies and ask the seemingly impossible, which gets done.
We get it plenty when we go on trips and don't bother to call to put minds at rest because they probably called throughout the journey. Even this, we take for granted and ask to not be disturbed.
We get it plenty when we are financially down and seek support, when plans don't go as we intended and just need someone to be there...we get it.

Imagine the strength of what we get when we ask it, now imagine asking and finding no care, no empathy. Then truly, we would understand the hurt that comes with it.

That is what we give out each time we don't show empathy. Yet, they still bear with us.

That is something for us to think about and begin to make better.

04/02/2026

One of the clearest signs that Allah loves you is that that no matter how many times you fall, you keep returning.

You repent after every sin. You refuse to give up on Allahโ€™s mercy. You donโ€™t let your mistakes convince you that youโ€™re unworthy of forgiveness.

So stay firm and donโ€™t allow repeated failure stop your repentance. Donโ€™t let shame and guilt push you away from the One who is calling you back.

Allah says:
ุฅูู†ู‘ูŽ ูฑู„ู„ู‘ูŽู‡ูŽ ูŠูุญูุจู‘ู ูฑู„ุชู‘ูŽูˆู‘ูŽุงุจููŠู†ูŽ
Indeed, Allah loves those who constantly repent.

Return again and again and again, because there is no one more Generous, no one more Merciful than Allah.

_Sheikh Abu Bakr Zoud โœ๏ธ

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