15/08/2024
*PARENTING IS A DIVINE MANDATE*
"Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old, he will not depart from it." (Prov. 22:6)
Someone says, "Parenting is both rewarding and guilt inducing. It’s rewarding because we love our children and they bring us joy. It’s guilt inducing because we blame ourselves for their shortcomings and misfortunes" Sometimes we ask ‘Where did I go wrong as a parent?’ Having done all, however, we must admit this, that there is no perfect parent anywhere, and there is no universal blueprint or template for parenting skills, because every child is born unique.
According to Bible, all our children were born in sin and iniquity: "Behold, I was brought forth in evil, and in sin did my mother conceive me." (Psalm 51:5). God gave us our children with a clear mandate to mould them spiritually, morally, socially, and intellectually. For example, by age seven, they have learned about 75 per cent of everything they will ever know. Although there is no one-size-fits-all formula for success, there are God-given principles that work whether or not you’re a new parent, older parent, or someone who works with children. This God-given principle is to "Train up a child in the way he should go, And when he is old he will not depart from it." (Prov. 22:6). This of course includes knowing the personality, characteristics, abilities of each child and then tailoring your training to fit them. Thus, God commends Abraham: "For I know him, that he will command his children and his household after him, and so they will keep the way of the LORD, practicing righteousness and justice, so that the LORD may bring to Abraham that which he has told him” (Gen. 18:19). Are you a parent? Let's pray and commit our children back to God; let the Holy Spirit teach us how to bring up our children in the path of godliness in this evil and perverse generation.
PRAYER: Lord Jesus, thank YOU for the gift of our children, bless and shepherd them for us in the path of righte