01/12/2025
There's nothing like "Church wedding". White people does not even call it 'white wedding'.. They simply call it WEDDING. There's no Christian marriage, marriage is Culture.
No marriage is better or more legal than the other, Whether you marry in the court, in the mosque, in the church, at the river side, in the shrine, in a village, marriage is marriage.
No Christian marriage, but there are Christians in marriage, that is why Bible has no scriptural reference for wedding, because WEDDING is TRADITIONAL MARRIAGE for the white. But we Africans, because of our low understanding, after doing our own traditional marriage we now carry white people's traditional marriage and attach to it, so we do two traditional marriages.
Church Wedding after doing traditional marriage is irrelevant. But do if you have the money, it's a matter of choice & level of mindset.
Wedding ring is not compulsory, that money you used to do two traditional marriages would have started a business for your wife, or something else.
Because it's cultural we give wedding ring, earrings, bracelet Etc. According to the tradition, as a token of our commitment to one another, but it's not necessary. (Gen. 24:22)
No wedding ring is anointed, if truly it's anointed what if you lose it? That means the The anointing has disappeared, you'll have to buy another ring, call a Pastor and do another wedding, huh? Think about that!
There's nothing like "Blessing the ring" if you like pray from morning till night is a waste of prayers it doesn't change anything. Direct your Blessings to the subjects (the Couples) not an inanimate object.
if truly the wedding ring is blessed by God it should have the power to stop divorce, d£ath and unnecessary misunderstandings in marriage, but it's powerless, the ring Will still be there and yet the marriage will crash, it won't stop it.
The ring can't stop infidelity, it won't stop divorce, it won't bring peace of mind in your marriage, it won't multiply your income, it won't lead you to Christ, it's absolutely useless.
Once you fulfill the items on the marriage list, and every other requirements from the family and pay the bride price of a lady, you both are legally married, before God and men, church or no church.
If you really need a pastor to pray for you guys, why not invite the pastor to the marriage ceremony, so he can come and pray for you two? Or does his anointing has jurisdiction?
Stop feeling incomplete, unholy and cond£mned just because you didn't wear suit and wedding gown to the church. Stop that nonsense!
Marriage is simply an agreement between two opposite sxx who are adults to live together. The woman has made up her mind to submit to a man, the man ready to love, lead and provide.
If they truly understand this, and they have the knowledge of Christ and Love and understand each other, wedding or no wedding, ring or no ring, they'll have a happy and long lasting marital life more than those who throw extravagant weddings. Selah 💕