27/02/2023
MARRIAGE AND MINISTRY OR CAREER
A PRACTICAL OBSERVATION AT A MINISTERS' PROGRAM
I was at a Ministers Program' after the service at the beginning of the week ......
.......I noticed a Minister (a Pastor and his wife) sitting at different rows in the hall
I chose to sit in the row where the Pastor's wife was sitting........ This brought me close to the wife (sitting beside the wife)..........
Before I disclose my observation, I need to tell say that I'm not the touchy type, I hardly complain about the deficiency of people)
I almost fainted On greeting this woman.... As a result of the ugly and terrible odour from the mouth of the woman in question. I moved back to the third chair from her but that still didn't save the situation, so, I had to look for a safe place to sit
Before anyone comes up with excuses for the bad breath...... That she might be having the bad breath as a result of medical issues..... NO! THIS IS NOT A MEDICAL ISSUE BUT HYGIENE ISSUE
I pity the husband who is also a Pastor because of the dangers and temptations the wife poses to him and his Ministry
This kind of a young and handsome Minister will always stand before beautiful and clean women with the burden of the wife's uncleanness in heart while he Ministers to such women
With my experience in life and Ministry, I don't cast blame on spouses and even Ministers that cheat , STILL, IM NOT JUSTIFYING THEIR SINFUL ACTION BUT I ALWAYS WANT TO SEE, HEAR AND OBSERVE THEIR SPOUSES before commenting on such incident
BECAUSE, THOSE SPOUSES WHO APPEAR TO BE VICTIMS OF THE EXTRAMARITAL AFFAIRS ARE SOMETIMES THE REASON THEIR SPOUSES ARE CHEATING IN THE FIRST PLACE
MY ADVICE
1 When you are not enjoying the LOVE AND ATTENTION of your spouse, TAKE A BREAK AND LOOK INWARDLY........ CRITICALLY LOOK AT YOURSELF AND BE SINCERE WITH YOURSELF...... THIS IS THE FIRST STEP IN OVER COMING THE CHALLENGES IN YOUR MARRIAGE
2. LOOK FOR A PROFESSIONAL MARRIAGE COUNSELOR TO HELP YOU OVERCOME YOUR MARITAL PROBLEMS
3. SOMETIMES, YOUR PROBLEMS ARE NOT SPIRITUAL BUT WITH ONE OR TWO COUNSELING SESSIONS, THE MIRACLE YOUR MARRIAGE DESIRE WILL BE RELEASED
4. SEEK KNOWLEDGE TO IMPROVE YOURSELF AND YOUR MARRIAGE
A JOYFUL AND PEACEFUL MARRIAGE IS POSSIBLE IN CHRIST JESUS AND YOUR COOPERATION
