Shalom psychological Counseling and Therapy Center

11/11/2025

God uses men to help men
They are called destiny helpers
These are Men/women who are sent by God for a particular mission in your life for a particular season
If you see a man/woman helped by God ,there's a man/woman used by God as a proxy
God uses men/women or situation to propell you to your destiny
MAY GOD SEND DESTINY HELPERS IN YOUR LIFE AS SOON AS POSSIBLE IN THE MIGHTY NAME OF JESUS CHRIST

23/10/2025

S*X IN MARRIAGE

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S*x in Marriage is one thing that can never be emphasised enough, and for men s*x is very ,very important because it plays a very big,important role in their mental wellness,a man who is well fed s*xually will operate 10 times better than a man of is s*xually Starved ,s*x to man is more than the act of intimacy of the private parts ,its more psychological ,s*x raises men's ego ,it gives them the kingly crown that makes them fulfilled

DEAR WIFE DON'T STARVE YOUR HUSBAND ,GIVE HIM ENOUGH S*X AND YOU WILL THANK ME LATER

Men's s*xual libido is mainly boosted by good mental health and state, wives if you want your husband to **perform** prepare the ground by giving him the peace of mind,any obstruction in his mind will indefinitely cause your husband **gadgets** to shrink hence making the poor performance
There are many other factors than can lead to a super s*xual performance in your husband Like, diet,exercise without forgetting prayers, i have had men who come to come for prayers and deliverance because their instruments of power has been demonically attacked hence making them not to perform or poorly perform
Wives i need you to know ,that men also enjoy and like it when you not only intiate s*x but also steer the game ,do it often for your husband,its important and makes them feel valued just like you feel whenever its done to you,remember God created s*x for both of you to enjoy

Camp here ,many more marriage nuggets are coming ,share this post,you never know may need this to rescue or stabilise their marriage
Remember marriage is a school that no one ever graduate, we learn and unlearn everyday
Apostle John Mburu
Counselling Psychologist
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15/10/2025

Read this piece of information,slowly and carefully,it will save you from a lot

One of the most powerful knowledge in marriage is the knowledge and understanding of your temperament and that of your partner

Most of the corrison in marriage are caused,triggered and escalated by misunderstanding of personal traits

When understand your temperament and that of your partner it becomes easier for you to handle situations with sobriety

Do you know your temperament❓❓
Do you know the temperament of your partner❓❓

Use the below information to run your personal temperament test

14/10/2025

*X_IN

One of the most forsaken topic in the church is s*x and this has adversely affected many marriages leading to the increasing storms in marriages


S*x in marriage is not a hobby ,its not just one of the activities, its a major component that makes up marriage
S*X in marriage is work ,just like you dedicate yourself in your career or business ,s*x in marriage demands the same efforts and dedication ,you must be intentional about it
If you subtract s*x from marriage ,you shall remain with an empty shell ,s*x gives life to marriage and sustains it

More nuggets are coming

13/10/2025

🚫❗ dont Don't read this post if you don't have a good understanding of literature
Just scroll up or down
This wasn't meant for you

There's no peace in marriage
There's no joy in marriage
There's no happiness in marriage

If you enter into marriage to look for the above ,then you have missed direction ,take a left or right turn🟥

In marriage theres a formula , 1+1= 2
You get what you give and sometimes multiplied
If you want peace,joy and happiness in marriage,come in and with the same
Learn to find your own happiness and reduce expectations otherwise you will be daily customer of disappointments

11/10/2025

Marriage has got two angles
And both of them are necessities and equally important
Spiritual & physical
Allow me to address the "physical"
In this case the physical carries a whole banch of many other needs including psychological and emotional needs
Dear friends
You cant replace a kiss with a bible verse
You cant replace s*x in marriage with a hymm
You cant replace romance with a psalm

LET THE WISEWOMEN/MEN THOSE UNDERSTAND THOSE FEW WORDS

11/10/2025

#001
Every marriage is unique ,like a fingerprint, never try to copy paste other couple's model of marriage ,pray and find what works for you ,because what works or worked for others may not necessarily work for you

By the grace of God ,as a trained and certified counseling pyscologist ,i will be posting some marriage and other personal development nuggets , follow for more
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26/08/2025

22/06/2024

Never curse every rejection
Never curse every abandonment
Never curse everyone that despises you
Never curse everyone that ignores you

Some of the above are ways that God uses
To prove that He alone is sufficient

Some people leaves your life to punish you
Some leaves to teach you a lesson
BUT GOD USES THAT OPPORTUNITY TO SHOW YOU LOVE AND CARE

MAY GOD TURN AROUND WHATEVER WAS MEANT FOR EVIL IN YOUR LIFE AND BRING A BLESSING

11/11/2022

Self love
So many people in the world finds themselves in a great dilemma of how to love themselves and others
Due to this dilemma they finds themselves getting into more complicated issues of life ,it's unfortunate that the world system has a customized way of life, from birth you are taught to live for others , you grow up in the same system hence adapting and continuing the same pattern then pass it to the next generation , you are made to believe that you were born to grow and become ready for others to use , while this has some good degrees of truth and reality , without having the whole truth human being have continued to do harm to themselves more than good,many people have committed suicide,died of depression and other "self caused disease s ,we are born , search for education/knowledge and then proceed to work in search of enablement to life , with responsibilities on our shoulders we continue with the circle of life, remember this is a continuous journey so few or none takes time to think about themselves,we become so entangled to the circle of life and before you know it ,you are close to grave and tired

We give ourselves wholly to our families,our careers ,our ministries e.t.c and to things that seems to make us fulfilled, unfortunately in many cases all our efforts are rarely or never appreciated and you becomes like a man who draws waters with a torn bucket

I just want to remind you, you are an individual and thats the bottom line,if you don't love and appreciate yourself it will be difficult to love others, before you love your wife ,love yourself and appreciate yourself before you love your children love yourself(remember before they become yours ,they are individuals with a unique, tailor made destinies), before you love your friends, your job and everything else Start with your own self
God in His own wisdom instructed us to love others just as we love ourselves..IT STARTS WITH YOU

kindly take time to think about yourself, think about your health, think about your peace , think about your joy and happiness,... REMEMBER your wife , husband , children, church, business,job e.t.c can live without you BUT you can't live "you" "Selah"
It's impossible to give what you don't have

God didn't bring you here to be spent and then disposed

REV JOHN MBURU
A professional counselor
Shalom psychological Counseling and Therapy Center