08/07/2026
The "Waiting" Truth Bomb
The waiting period in singlehood is a training ground.
If you can't say "no" to your desires while single, getting married won't magically change that.
Lust is actually not about marital status.
It's simply a lack of self-control that even marriage can't fix.
Why?
Marriage requires more self-control (natural family planning, seasons of illness, pregnancy, etc.), not less.
Practicing chastity is not just "waiting for the wedding night." If you view this season as just a countdown, you're missing the point.
Chastity is a muscle.
If you aren't strengthening your "No" today, your "Yes" to your wife/husband on your wedding day won't end your promiscuous tendencies.
Use this season of singleness to become a master of your own heart, not a slave to your impulses.