15/01/2026
Why do you need to create healthy boundaries 2026!
'It’s easy to go through life trying to please others out of guilt and pressure. A relative or friend will get upset and have their feelings hurt every time we don’t do what they want. They use control and manipulation to get their way. They expect us to perform, to be there every time they call, to make sure they’re taken care of. If not, they try to make you feel guilty as though it’s your job to keep them fixed, happy, encouraged, and entertained. But here’s a key: You are not responsible for other people’s happiness. You are responsible for your own happiness. Take that pressure off. If you continue to give in, you’ll not have the time and energy for your dreams, and you’ll enable their dysfunction. As long as they have you, they don’t have to change'.
"Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God? Or am I trying to please people? If I were still trying to please people, I would not be a servant of Christ."
Galatians 1:10, NIV