I Am Muslim And Proud Of It.

28/12/2023

20/10/2022

Please follow the Sunnah not culture. Obey Allah and His Messenger (ﷺ).

One of the greatest aims of marriage according to the laws of Allah is so that affection and compassion may prevail between the spouses. This is the foundation on which married life should be.

Allah says: “And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.” [Quran 30:21]

The prophet helped out around the house, serving his family often. Al-Aswad said, “I asked ‘A’isha, may Allah be pleased with her, ‘What did the Prophet (ﷺ) do when he was with his family?’ She replied, ‘He would do chores for his family, and when it was time for the prayer, he would go out.'” [Bukhari Al Adab Al Mufrad (Sahih)]

Prophet Muhammad (‎ﷺ) said: “The most perfect of the believers in faith is the one who is best in attitude, and the best of you is the one who is best in attitude towards his womenfolk.” [Tirmidhi 1162]

The Messenger of Allah (‎ﷺ) said: “The best of you are those who are the best to their wives, and I am the best of you to my wives.” [Tirmidhi]

Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ) never criticised any food, if he liked it he would eat it, otherwise he would leave it. [Bukhari, 3563, Muslim, 2064]

Choose for yourself the path of kindness. “Is there any reward for good other than good?” [Quran 55:60].

15/04/2022

Praise to Allah, who has removed from us [all] sorrow. Indeed, our Lord is Forgiving and Appreciative.

02/04/2022

27/02/2022

Does the Qur'an command women to stay home?

وقرن في بيوتكن

This verse [33:33] can be read in two different ways: ‘And remain [وَقَرْنَ] in your homes.' & ‘And remain dignified [وَقِرْنَ] in your homes.'

1- Imam Ibn Jarir Tabari explains:
وَقَرَأَ ذَلِكَ عَامَّة قُرَّاء الْكُوفَة وَالْبَصْرَة : { وَقِرْنَ } بِكَسْرِ الْقَاف , بِمَعْنَى : كُنَّ أَهْل وَقَار وَسَكِينَة { فِي بُيُوتكُنَّ } . وَهَذِهِ الْقِرَاءَة وَهِيَ الْكَسْر فِي الْقَاف أَوْلَى عِنْدَنَا بِالصَّوَابِ
"And the reciters of Kufah and Basrah generally recite it as 'waqirna', with the 'Kasra' on the 'Qaaf', which would mean: ‘And remain dignified and serene in your homes.' This recitation is closer to the truth according to me."
["Tafsir Tabari", 10/294].

So Imam Tabari did not read this verse as a command for women to stay at home... and even those who did read it as that, many of them did not consider it an obligation, but as an encouragement.

2- Ibn Battal said:
وقال المهلب: وقوله: لكن أفضل الجهاد حج مبرور، يفسر قوله تعالى: وَقَرْنَ فِى بُيُوتِكُنَّ وَلاَ تَبَرَّجْنَ تَبَرُّجَ الْجَاهِلِيَّةِ الأُولَى { الأحزاب: 33 } أنه ليس على الفرض لملازمة البيوت
'Muhallab said [about the Hadith]: 'The best Jihad [for women] is a Hajj Mabrur.' : And this explains that the Qur'anic verse: 'And remain in your houses,' [33:33], does not obligate women to stay in their houses.'
['Sharh Ibn Battal', 4/191].

3- Ibn Hajar said:
وفيه دليل على أن الأمر بالقرار في البيوت ليس على سبيل الوجوب
'And in this there is evidence that [women] remaining in their houses is not compulsory.'
['Fath al-Bari', 4/89].

If the Shar’ii requirements are met: women can go out of their homes and visit family, friends, do shopping, go to the doctor, go to work, take the kids to the park, enjoy nature etc, if the family is in the loop, if they don't neglect their family commitments and it is safe and they maintain hijab etc.

The guidelines should be adhered to, by both men and women. For example: Non-related men and women should not flirt or be alone with each other, etc.

If Shar’ii guidelines are not breached, there is no issue …

In our country, some say:
ښځه یا په کور
یا په ګور
'Women should be either at home [KOOR],
or in the grave [GOOR].'

This is cultural nonsense ……….

Islam does not say that women should be caged up and locked up behind 4 walls their entire life …..........

24/05/2021

Talbina is a porridge made from barley flour, formed by adding milk and honey to the dried barley powder. The name comes from the Arabic word laban meaning yogurt, because of its resemblance to yogurt, as it is soft and white.

Recipes:
https://youtu.be/RSAT7MehKNc

https://youtu.be/Rr-C4lMa7Hs

03/05/2021

Surah Al-Qadr

17/10/2020

Husband and wife dialogue:
The husband : did you pray ‘Asr prayer ?
The wife : No !
The husband : Why ?
The wife : I just arrived from work and I am a bit tired. I will go to sleep.
The husband : Ok ! Go pray ‘Asr and Maghrib before the Athan for ‘Isha prayer starts.
The next day, as usual, the husband went on a business trip which would last for days. He left the house. After few hours he arrived at his destination.
The wife waited for his call as usual. He didn’t call or inbox her. She phoned him but no reply! She became irritated and worried about him.
She phoned again and again but no reply !
After few hours he phoned her.
The wife : are you ok, honey ?!!
The husband : yes, I am ok. Alhamdulillah.
The wife : when did you arrive ?
The husband : four hours now.
The wife : «surprised » : Four hours !!! but you didn’t call !!!
The husband : I arrived a bit tired and I went to sleep.
The wife : You could have called me. It wouldn’t have taken more than few minutes. Didn’t you hear the phone ringing ?
The husband : Yes, I did.
The wife : why didn’t you answer the phone? Didn’t you care?
The husband : (silent)….. But yesterday you also didn’t care when you heard the Adhan, a call from Allah.
The wife : (silent, and tears in her eyes). You are right, honey. I am sorry !
The husband : Ask Allah subhanahu wa ta’ala to forgive you!
We can be together in Jannah. Insha'Allah pass it to everyone Dost: Din me 5 time namaz parhne ko apni adat banalo
sirf ye soch kar k kya pata ye azan tum akhri bar sun rahe ho?
Kya pata tumhara RAB tumhe akhri bar pukar raha he?
95% log is msg ko forward nahi karte ap zaror frwd kren,
"Beshak jo ALLAH k kaamo may lagta he tu ALLAH uske kaamo may lag jata he..