26/01/2024
*PROTECT YOUR HUSBAND* a sequel.
.... *The Jezebel Approach( TJA)*.
The marriage triangle doesn't deal with lines alone but Angles and meeting points called Apex.
Jezebel, though a representative and metaphoric agent for darkness she understood the Angular switch of her husband and took action.
Noboth had a vineyard which was for his progenitors and therefore can't be sold or given for free.
Ahab wanted this priceless vineyard because it was beautiful.
When he was turned down by Naboth, Ahab's mood changed.
I guess he became so worried and sad that a citizen has denied his king of a property.
Jezebel quickly understood the angular change of her Darling husband and approached him. She identified his problem with love, she assured her husband of her support, then she took an action to help her husband. Although the action was wrong, but the fact that she was sensitive to the mood swing of the husband gives her credit.
Wives, protect your husbands.
Men, naturally do not share their inner challenges and pains because of the natural ability that they are the head..they therefore try to solve their own problems to see the man in them before they tell their wives.
He returned from the office or workplace very Moody or sad.......didn't you see it as a wife the whole of the evening when he returned?
He expected you to hold him and ask why the mood? But you went on with your business, watching TV, punching your phone, making calls and going to bed.
He, your husband was on the bed beside you, humming. Couldn't you be sensitive enough to touch him and ask why?????? Wives, protect us.
It is not only food and other things that we need. Those things maybe could be done by us whether we married you or not....but there are some twists that only a friend, caring wife, sensitive wife can help.....our mood.
Ok....see something. Until you, our wives have taken us as your first Sons, you will never be able to help us.
Husbands can be very childish, raw, wrong, immature, unpredictable, complex, bossy but weak, chairmen but servants, all knowing but dullards, Almighty but frail, omnipotent but fragile, omniscience but terrible.....these are signs of a child. If you dont take us as your first Son to pamper us, tickle us to share our struggles then YOU WILL LOSE US EMOTIONALLY.
Wives, protect us. The other time your husband asked for that which is legal and can only happen between a husband and wife and either you were not well or tired, what came out of your mouth????? Even though you had a good reason as to why he can't go to Canaan but did you handled him respectfully?
Don't push us away for we are also emotional beings.
Wife, if you are insensitive to me but you always need my help at the kitchen, at the laundry, to give you money, to run errands for you then you do not so much care about me.
What l want may not be what you are doing.
Jezebel, was at the exact spot to help the emotions of her husband.
Wives, we your husbands are bags of problems so if you dont care for us especially when our angles of mood have changed then, we can't find happiness.
Do you know why for a long time your husband has not said *l love you*? Find out.
If l fall into a pit, what do you think l first need? Is it food? Clothes? You can give me food, clothes and even cash but have you done me any good?????.....what l need is a rope to get out.
Wives, save your husbands.
Why has the mood of your husband changed? Maybe you acted wrongly towards him.....find out and apologize.
Why has the mood changed? Maybe he is running into a debt.....find out, scold him and help him.
Maybe he is sick....find out and help him.
Maybe, he is stressed up. Find out and help him.
Maybe, the office boss is not treating him well or because the church can't grow. Find out and help him.
A lady elsewhere might be troubling him. Find out and help him.....REMEMBER, he is your first son.
If you ask and he doesn't say anything concrete, don't stop use what l know you can do best to win his heart and he will tell you. You have what it takes to make your husband tell you everything in the world including given you his cheque.
Save your husband, dear.
A husband must go out happy and come home happy. That is a parallel line.
If he leaves Moody and come Moody it is also a parallel line but crooked.
If he leaves happy and comes moody, it is an angle....help him.
If he leaves moody but enjoys outside......it is dangerous.
Your husband has weakness. Help him. He is human. Help him. He is your first Son. Take care of his emotions.
Maybe, your husband is a pastor.
Hmmm this work is full of challenges. The spiritual challenges are too many.
Please, our wives kindly support us because you are part of the ministry.
I wonder why with Priscilla and Aquilla, the wife's name comes first before her husband Aquilla. It tells of how supportive his wife was to ministry, home and in the life of her husband.
Proverbs 31 gives snapshots of the enormous responsibilities of our wives.
In the book COCKCROW, there is a poem called MAMA IS A SUNRISE written by Evelyn Tooley Hunt.The writer shares the same concept with the mother of Lemuel in Proverbs 31.
God give you grace to stand out tall and make our home strong in Jesus Name.
Your husband loves to have his wife back. It's 2024.
By Pastor Daniel Owusu Larbi
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