29/01/2024
*PROTECT ME, I AM YOUR WIFE*
Sometimes l sit to analyze so many things about marriage. After concluding the assessment l called my wife to tell her that *she should just humbly manage me, l know l am a burden and that she should consider me as her first child*.
Do you know why? It's because l know it ๐.
If you dash a woman money to use for herself and you see her using the money to buy things for the family, protect her.
If after a vigil at church, you all come back home tired and sleepy but your woman walks straight to the kitchen whilst you walk straight to bed, protect her.
After returning from the farm, if you see her going straight to the kitchen to get something for the family to eat, protect her.
Your wife buys your boxer shorts and under tops, including sewing dresses for you. She buys things that can make you look good to her and outsiders, please protect her.
She washes your clothes especially your tough jeans and folds them to the right places, protect her.
She prepares your favourite and you are her interest, she serves you like a King, your food is always like the forest, Bro K, protect her.
At some point l realized that the way l take care of her when she is unwell is quiet different from how she suffers when l am unwell๐คฆ๐ปโโ๏ธ๐คฆ๐ปโโ๏ธ......Charlie, protect her.
To get a wife who sacrifices is not easy.
A wife is a nurse, Doctor, teacher, pharmacist, farmer, pastor, journalist because they talk๐ค, a caterer, a mother, ......,........,.......,......,. The list goes on...
She is indeed a MOTHER.
Love her, cherish her. Dont compare anyone to her. She is doing her best in her own world.
When you wake up from bed, ask of how she is doing. I hope by now you have moved from that room you sleep to join her.
Always tell her that though the oranges on her chest have fallen, you still love it because it was because of you they all dropped.
Look at her tummy, wrinkled, protruded and disorganized....tell her how it looks beautiful to you.
Her SACRIFICE gave her those marks. What marks are on you as a man? Apart from your protruded tummy which is as a result of food?๐ฅฑ.
Hold her hair and run your hands in it for her......put her legs in warm water and massage them for her.
Wash, husband, wash her clothes for her when you have the time........not just the clothes but her un**es. Wash them whilst singing.......surprise her with gifts.......women and money are good friends, give her money not just for house keeping but as a gift even if it is Gh1.
When you have all gone to work, check on her........if she is at home check on her......
Thank God for the plumber who came to the house when the man had given him some task....because the wife was at home the man only told the plumber to go there and work.
The plumber knocked and called without an answer meanwhile the door was left ajar.....he entered the Hall and realized that someone's legs were at the entrance of the washroom.
Quickly, he called the man to rush home....his wife had fallen and was in comatose.
Call your wife and check on her at home. Let her always expect and love your coming home.
When you have travelled and reached your destination, call and tell her.
Do you know what Paul said? The woman has the power to block your prayers. If you mistreat her your prayer wont be answered. This means they have a special protocol favour.
Any man who does well as a minister is as a result of how he manages his wife.
The anointing is not in prayer alone ooooo my wife keeps the greater part for me and for you.
Is she a christian? Yes, born again? Yes, loves the things of God? Yes.....always let her lay hands on you to pray for you. I am enjoying her hands ooo.
What if she is not born again? Help her....TEACH her....pray with her and for her...show her love. Jesus will take over soon.
She wants your attention, give it to her. Dont always sleep when she is talking to you. Some can snore when wifey is talking to them.....it doesnt show respect.
Don't hide anything in the phone......be transparent to her....let her trust you.
Marriage is all about trust.
Don't always send the call far from her reach to make or receive it.
What about the messages? Hmmm.....why is it that when she picks your phone you run from the washroom with soap on your face to take it??? Which virus is inside that phone? Dorcas is called Dr.... Bernice is called B, Georgina is called Georgia.....why this stress????
This year 2024, burn all the tension. Take her to an eatery. Feed her, then rewind the track of your marriage with faithfulness. Tell her you are now real.
Look at her dimples, curved neck, round eyes, slightly flat nose.......SHE IS A GIFT TO LOVE.
Can we do this together? Yes.
Thanks for all the write-ups on marriage you have been reading.
It is always long yet you take your time to read.
Thanks for always sharing your lessons with me to write more.
This is the last part so l encourage you that we all help to make the family a happy one.
God bless you all.
Pastor Daniel Owusu Larbi
Deeper Life Bible Church.
In case of counselling please chat me on 0249885086.
Where my grace can't help we have wonderful fathers and mothers in the Lord to recommend to you.
Don't die in marriage, God loves you.
