27/12/2025
Before you cross over into 2026, take a moment to honestly take stock of your friendships. Pause and reflect on the relationships you carried with you through this season. Ask yourself how those friendships have truly impacted your life, spiritually, emotionally, and mentally.
Did these relationships draw you closer to God, or did they slowly pull you away from His presence? Did they encourage your faith, your character, and your purpose, or did they leave you drained, confused, or stagnant? Scripture reminds us, “Do not be misled: Bad company corrupts good character” (1 Corinthians 15:33). The people we walk with matter more than we often realise.
Healthy friendships are not one-sided. Consider whether you were the only one putting in the effort to maintain the relationship, or whether there was mutual care, respect, and intentionality. God-honoring friendships are built on balance, honesty, and shared values. “Two are better than one… for if either of them falls, the one will lift up his companion” (Ecclesiastes 4:9–10). A true friend does not compete with your growth, they celebrate it and support it.
More importantly, the right relationships should push you to become a better version of yourself. They should challenge you to grow, hold you accountable in love, and encourage you to pursue holiness. “As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another” (Proverbs 27:17). Godly friendships refine you, they don’t keep you comfortable in places God is calling you to outgrow.
As you prepare to step into 2026, pray for discernment and courage. Ask God to remove relationships that no longer align with His purpose for your life and to strengthen those that are rooted in love, truth, and faith. Surround yourself with people who pray with you, speak life over you, and remind you of who you are in Christ, especially when you forget.
Remember, friendships are not just about companionship; they are about destiny. Choose relationships that help you grow closer to God and propel you toward the person He is calling you to become.