Visionary Moms

15/06/2025

26/05/2025

26/05/2025

A good number of us have seen the viral video of a 4/5 year old boy and girl child of almost the same age making out in the classroom while their fellow classmates where present. It took place in Yaounde, Cameroon.

Please, if you stumble on such a video, don't share it. Whenever you do, you are promoting child po*******hy.

Don't label such children as bad children because the adults in their lives have failed them. Whenever you see children carrying out such acts, know that they have been exposed to adult content in one way or the other.

These children need help! Someone has to ask them where they saw what they are doing.

The sad thing is, the other children in that classroom also saw what they were doing. That's why we'll often say that children are not as innocent as we think because they can stumble on s*xual content any where.

I hope you are not among those parents who say I cannot teach my child s*x education? You might be destroying them unconsciously.

Do you want to take my course on Raising S*xually Healthy Children? I'm a click away.

For the sake of every child.

S*xually Healthy Families Academy
Visionary Family Network
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26/05/2025

Children are like arrows in the hands of a warrior.
It's our responsibility to make the arrow shape and useful

26/05/2025

Let's do our best as parents to raise children who will not need to recover from their childhood.

Childhood trauma is common among children but most parents are unaware of it.

02/12/2024

Teach your children...

The birth of Christ is a significant event for Christians all over the world. That is why it is important that we teach our children about it.

For the most part, parents focus on buying new things for the children and cooking delicious meals during Christmas. Nothing is wrong with this if you can afford it. But don't forget to let your children know why they celebrate.

The way we do it sometimes eh 😀... the children can think that the focus is on them, not on Christ.

Here are some methods you can use to teach your children about christmas:
1. Tell them your childhood experience. You definitely have both good and bad memories, both exciting and not so exciting stories, etc

2. Read Bible stories with your that teach the true meaning of Christmas. NB: as a Christian parent, you ought to know the real reason we celebrate Christmas.

3. Watch movies with your children that focus on the birth of Christ and draw out important lessons from there

4. Read books together that talk about the birth of Christ.

5. Let the children be involved in church activities that celebrate the birth of Christ

6. Give gifts to others as a way of celebrating the Ultimate Gift from God.

7. Remember those who don't have enough to celebrate and celebrate with them, pray for them too, and visit them. This will teach your children about the love of God that came down at Christmas.

Let the children know that it is about The Lord Jesus Christ.

Always remember that Jesus is the reason for the season.

Mabel Oben

01/12/2024

The way you view a thing will determine how you celebrate it.

Christmas is not just for children.

Jesus Christ was born to save us all from our sins, not just to give us a reason to buy new dresses and shoes for our children.

Christmas is a time to reflect on what Jesus Christ accomplished on the cross for us all.

It is a time to actively remember the purpose of His birth and how His birth has impacted our lives.

As much as children are very much involved in this purpose, adults are much more involved because they better understand why the celebration and how to celebrate in a God-honouring way.

Jesus Christ came to save us from our sin.

Now is the time to surrender your all to Him.

This is the season to renew your relationship with the Lord Jesus Christ.

Remember, Jesus is the reason for the season.

Happy New Month

13/11/2024

Convening for Godly homes is a program for Christian families. If you are in Buea, do well to attend and you won't regret it.

05/09/2024

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Though children are s*xual beings, they don't begin expressing their adult s*xual behaviors until they are adults.

Unfortunately, too many children are being s*xualized by the adults in their life.

Since s*xual behavior is learned, in most cases, children are s*xualized by what they see or experience.

Children are known to be like sponges - absorbing whatever they see, hear or read. The s*xual behavior of their parents, older siblings, nanny, what they watch on TV, phones and what they read from magazines and books might negatively impact them.

Some children who are s*xually abused act out s*xually or become s*xualized.

The Cohort 1 of the Raising S*xually Healthy children course just ended and we are already preparing for Cohort 2.

As a parent who intends to raise s*xually healthy children, this course is for you.

Our children are exposed to a lot of unhealthy content everywhere and they are depending on you to give them the right knowledge at the right time.

Be informed. Be equipped. Be trained.

Registration is currently going on.

The course will run for 6 weeks.

https://chat.whatsapp.com/KgneU0W8CSY0DibhrxGs34

Click on this link to join parents who intend to take this course

05/09/2024

in Bamenda.

Nelson Mandela said, “Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.”

Unfortunately, too many children do not have access to quality education because of circumstances beyond their control...

I've worked with so many needy children (in different categories) over the years and I have seen the impact of lack/poverty on their education and quality of life as a whole.

I'm here to plead with you on behalf of these children and their families, to help them.

I've seen children coming to school without something to eat at home and they stay all day in school with no access to food 😢. This is supposed to be a basic need but some children don't have it.

Most of them look shabby and unkempt because of their parents' financial condition.

Every child deserves to be in school.

Some of them need clean clothes and shoes, food, school supplies (bag, text and exercise books, pens, etc).

A majority of them need school fees.

You can donate SANITARY PADS too.

Thank you for your kind support.

Call/WhatsApp/Momo :(+237)677862596
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Email: [email protected] or [email protected]

God bless you

02/08/2024

Welcome to the month of August.
It's our s*x education month.

In July, we looked at MY IDENTITY IN CHRIST.

Identity refers to one's answer to the question, who am I?

"Until you decide who you are, you'll be like a chameleon, blending to whatever situation or whoever you are with."

Your identity is supposed to be the same irrespective of where you find yourself per time. You shouldn't repeatedly change who you are to suit different environments.

Some of them agreed to the fact that sometimes they want to be like other people. From time to time, we feel this pressure too.

But the Bible says,
- I am a chosen generation
- you are the light of the world
- you are a joint heir with Christ
- you were fearfully and wonderfully made
- you have been adopted into God's family - you are God's own.
- you are God's temple. etc etc

I have been created with a purpose
I have been chosen by God, and I am special to Him.
I am God's child 👏👏👏👏.

This month, before they go back to school, we look at S*x Education. This is one area that is hugely neglected but needs very close attention.

Can you still register your child?
Yes, you can still register your child.
We'll begin this topic on Saturday, 3rd August, 2024

Happy New Month