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Learning to trust again after a betrayal is deeply personal. Rebuilding trust takes time and requires consistent actions...
09/05/2026

Learning to trust again after a betrayal is deeply personal.

Rebuilding trust takes time and requires consistent actions to create a sense of safety and security for the betrayed partner.

You don’t have to wait until you feel completely healed or have fully worked through your grief to begin trusting yourself again. Healing is often a simultaneous journey that involves expanding your capacity to hold grief while also unlocking your ability to trust yourself again.

It's also important to recognize that rebuilding trust with another person can be incredibly difficult when you're struggling to trust God.

We were created for relationships, but, more importantly, we were meant to have a trusting relationship with God.

The road to trusting others again after a devastating betrayal begins with trusting God for your future.

Here's an unpopular belief that often gets forgotten in crisis: Learning to trust again doesn't start with the person who broke it; it begins with God, who remains and will remain unwavering and trustworthy.

God can handle your honesty. He invites it. Start with a raw and honest prayer today.

You may be wondering, "I know I’m safe now, so why does my body still feel like it’s not?”Trauma isn't just about what h...
09/04/2026

You may be wondering, "I know I’m safe now, so why does my body still feel like it’s not?”

Trauma isn't just about what happened; it's about what your body has learned in response.

There is nothing wrong with you; your brain and body are functioning exactly as intended.

Their purpose is simple: to scan for danger and respond quickly.

This is not a flaw in God’s creation; it’s a form of His protection.

God designed your brain with an internal safety system to help you navigate challenges.

Healing from trauma is not about pushing yourself to “move on” or “have more faith.” It’s a journey of gradually rebuilding a sense of safety.

If your body still reacts in certain ways—if your heart races or you struggle to relax— know that this doesn’t mean you’re failing. It shows that your nervous system has adapted to survive—a testament to your resilience.

God doesn’t rush the process; He doesn’t shame the struggle. He stays close, especially in the places that feel most vulnerable.

“A bruised reed He will not break, and a smoldering wick He will not s***f out.” Isaiah 42:3

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09/03/2026

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The letting go part.My heart wasn’t made for goodbyes, especially when it means leaving our son in a different state. I ...
09/02/2026

The letting go part.
My heart wasn’t made for goodbyes, especially when it means leaving our son in a different state.

I knew this day would come, but didn’t know how it would feel.
There is so much pride, countless memories, and a touch of heartbreak mixed with the excitement of watching our kids begin their next chapter.
You spend 18 years helping them become independent, and then suddenly, independence is exactly what you’re supposed to give them.

We know it goes fast. They tell us. We see it. But it’s never quite as real as the day you drop your kid off at college or watch your firstborn move out.

Tim and Charlie drove to AZ after golfing with friends, sightseeing, and sharing meals with mentors. Addison started moving into her apartment, and I got the younger two ready for their first day of school. Then the ladies and I boarded a plane and melted in the triple-digit heat, as we launched Charlie into college life. Baylee lost two teeth upon landing which added to her excitement.

After wiping away tears, (yes, they appeared while ordering coffee and all the way through TSA at the airport and flight home) all that is left to do is trust that the foundation we’ve built for the last 22 years is strong, that the Lord will be like a wall of fire around our kids, and that Life360 won’t have an outage for the next 4 years.

To our amazing kids, the joy of the Lord you both embody is undeniable. Witnessing God work in your hearts and lives to shape you into the man and woman you’re meant to be has been one of God’s sweetest gifts this side of Heaven. Dad and I are confident that He has prepared the way for you as you embark on this new season in college and in your own little new apartment. I can’t wait to see how you transform your space and continue to become exactly who you are meant to be.

Sending hugs to all the other parents leaving their hearts in another town this month. Brutal.

* Brownies provided by instruction from Charlie to his girlfriend’s family for porch delivery.

It's not lost on me what the Lord has done through my story. I'm equally aware of what the Lord is doing through your st...
09/02/2026

It's not lost on me what the Lord has done through my story.

I'm equally aware of what the Lord is doing through your story.

Keep pushing forward, my friend.

If you feel you've lost the battle to restore your relationship, I pray you find the strength to fight for your peace, your joy, and your healing.

Your story may not feel like a miracle just yet, but your healing journey has the potential to beautifully demonstrate the power of Jesus as you partner with Him in recovery.

Reclaimed Ministry offers a few resources for your healing journey.

🌱 Comment 'HEAL' to explore the Reclaimed Course.
💪 Comment 'STRONGER' to unpack your story and build healing goals.
📖 Comment 'FIND HOPE' to purchase the Reclaimed 30-Day Devotional.
🤎 Comment 'GROWTH' to learn more about Life Coaching.

And if not any of those, send me a message. I would be honored to hear your miracle story.

Have you heard the saying, "You can never pour from an empty cup?"When I first discovered the infidelity in my marriage,...
08/28/2026

Have you heard the saying, "You can never pour from an empty cup?"

When I first discovered the infidelity in my marriage, I felt a whirlwind of emotions—anger, hurt, loss of identity, lack of confidence, bitterness, and so much more. However, I was determined not to let the betrayal overpower me or turn me into someone I truly wasn't.

Yes, I felt defeated.
Yes, I didn't know how I was going to move forward.
Yes, I was experiencing real pain.

In the days that followed, I spent countless hours pouring into "my cup." Even in the depths of defeat and chaos, taking a step back and reaching out for God's hand was the most loving way to take care of myself.

It may have felt like I was waving a white flag of surrender, but it was something far more beautiful. It became my surrender song:

"He must increase, but I must decrease."
John 3:30 ESV

Things are shifting around here. Tears are falling as the transition to TWO moving out at the same time is happening. I’...
08/22/2026

Things are shifting around here.
Tears are falling as the transition to TWO moving out at the same time is happening.

I’ve already walked circles in my home this morning. It’s already quiet. I’m reminding myself we as parents have prayed for a faith-filled launch. Maybe I’ll nap with his baby blanket today.

This is the first goodbye in a series of steps as we move our son to college and daughter into her first apartment. Working on my brave face…😭

Will you join me in prayer for safe road travels as my husband and son journey to GCU? ❤️

No one can get through life without telling a lie. None of us are perfect, and striving for that unattainable ideal is, ...
08/21/2026

No one can get through life without telling a lie.

None of us are perfect, and striving for that unattainable ideal is, frankly, exhausting.

The betrayed bride might believe her spouse's lies are the most damaging, but the truth is quite the opposite.

In the chaos of brokenness, Satan—the father of lies—thrives on sowing doubt and fear in our hearts.

The real challenge lies in rejecting those lies, embracing the truth, and moving forward with clarity about your true identity: a beautiful daughter of God.

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