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With Oluwafikayomi Ijilusi – I just got recognised as one of their top fans! 🎉
06/02/2024

With Oluwafikayomi Ijilusi – I just got recognised as one of their top fans! 🎉

It's disheartening to learn about this newborn baby left in Federal Low Cost, Jos. Thankfully, the baby is safe. This re...
06/02/2024

It's disheartening to learn about this newborn baby left in Federal Low Cost, Jos. Thankfully, the baby is safe.

This reinforces the importance of my campaign against single mum stereotypes. If we can eliminate stigma and stereotypes, incidents like this could be prevented in Nigeria.

It's possible that the mother's actions were influenced by various factors like depression due to stigma, lack of support from loved ones, and societal stereotypes against single mothers and love children that has affected the mothers mental health badly. These challenges can create immense pressure and lead to desperate decisions. By raising awareness and offering support, we can help prevent such heartbreaking situations in the future. Let's continue advocating for understanding and compassion for single mothers.

Let's join hands to foster a more compassionate and supportive environment for single mothers. Together, we can make a difference!




J.K. Rowling spent eight years as a single mother and wrote her bestselling series while she was parenting solo. She has...
05/14/2024

J.K. Rowling spent eight years as a single mother and wrote her bestselling series while she was parenting solo. She has said: ‘I am prouder of my years as a single mother than any other part of my life.’ We should all feel proud of our time as single parents. It's a blessing not a curse. And I am on a mission to help us get there. Follow my page.




Have you ever thought about how our nervous system works? Oh! Very fascinating!When we face stressful or traumatic situa...
05/14/2024

Have you ever thought about how our nervous system works? Oh! Very fascinating!

When we face stressful or traumatic situations, our sympathetic nervous system (SNS) kicks in to help us cope. But here's the thing: once the situation is resolved, the SNS keeps running unless our parasympathetic nervous system (PNS) steps in to bring us back to a state of calm.

The PNS is like the gardener in our inner world, responsible for restoring equanimity and emotional regulation. It's the system that helps us feel safe, peaceful, connected, and productive. Just like tending to a garden, the PNS ensures the right flow of emotions, just like the right flow of water. It's all about finding the right balance.

But what happens when trauma strikes? It's like an earthquake that shakes our inner garden, leaving us struggling to find stability. Trauma can have lasting effects, from reduced stress tolerance to new triggers and unwanted behaviors. It can make us feel like we're living on shaky ground.

But here's the beautiful part: with time and healing, we can rebuild our inner garden and find stability again. Remember, every child is a precious gift, and just like every child, every individual has a unique purpose and plan. So let's nurture our inner gardens, tend to our emotional well-being, and find that sense of peace and connection within ourselves.

The fact is, everyone can heal from trauma if you put in the work. The problem is, most people are not even aware that they have experienced trauma let alone heal from it. What happens after that? The wounds in their souls gets worse and deep and some of them gets wounded beyond repair. This is where mental illness comes in. But have got good news, no matter how bad your mental illness is, you can still heal. The question is, are you ready to heal?





05/11/2024

There are two great moments in a man's life, the day you were born and the day you know why you were born.





05/11/2024

It's funny how people judge women for getting divorced without knowing the true story behind the divorce. Women! Listen to this, your past doesn't determine you.

Theme: Your Confidence or God-fi-dence? Introduction:Have you ever found yourself questioning your abilities and qualifi...
05/06/2024

Theme: Your Confidence or God-fi-dence?

Introduction:
Have you ever found yourself questioning your abilities and qualifications due to past wounds and experiences? You're not alone, let's delve into my journey of battling with a lack of confidence and finding solace in the concept of "God-fi-dence."

1. The Weight of Past Wounds:
Abuse and manipulation can have a huge impact on your self-confidence. I felt I was unqualified and unworthy of pursuing my calling. It's a relatable struggle that many of us face when faced with past traumas. My story serves as a reminder that healing is a journey, and it's okay to take a break and seek restoration, but don't neglect your assignment because of lack of confidence.

2. The Holy Spirit's Guidance:
In the midst of my doubts, the Holy Spirit began to speak to my heart. I realised that I didn't need my own confidence, but rather God's "God-fi-dence." This divine revelation challenged me to trust in God's strength and allow Him to use me as an instrument. It's a powerful lesson for all of us, reminding us that we don't have to rely solely on our own abilities, but rather surrender to God's plan.

3. Embracing God-fi-dence:
I learned to put my trust in God and allow Him to work through me, even when I feel inadequate. This shift in perspective allows me to step back and let God take the lead. It's a beautiful example of surrender and a reminder that God can use our brokenness for His glory. I encourage you to embrace your vulnerabilities and trust that God's strength is made perfect in your weaknesses. You may not have the confidence to do it, but you definitely have God-fi-dence.

05/04/2024

Am a survivor, not a victim.

05/04/2024

The deep secret behind her stage name "Angelmoon". 😁 There something y'all don't know about Angelmoon, watch and share.

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