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02/06/2024

_RCCG SUNDAY SCHOOL STUDENT’S MANUAL_
_*Y.A.Y.A. EDITION*_
_LESSON: FORTY_
_DATE: SUNDAY 2ND JUNE 2024_

_TOPIC: GOD'S CHASTENING_

*SUNDAY SCHOOL HYMN*

*1.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
O how I love Thee well,
I am happy, it makes me glad
To rejoice at Thy birth.

*2.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
Thy friendship suits me well,
Both young and old will sing Thy song,
We long for Sunday School.

*3.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
Christ was Thy first teacher,
The Holy Spirit, great teacher,
Does manifest in thee.

*4.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
This testimony is sure,
That God, the Father Almighty,
Poured His blessing on Thee

*5.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
Though the sun be so bright,
Or if the clouds be black with rain,
I'll be in Sunday School.

*6.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day
I rejoice to see Thee,
Will thou pass over me today?
Without my being blest?



MEMORY VERSE: "You should know in your heart that as a man chastens his son, so the Lord your God chastens you". –Deuteronomy 8:5 (NKJV)


BIBLE PASSAGE: HEBREWS 12:5-12.

[5]And you have forgotten the exhortation which speaks to you as to sons: “My son, do not despise the chastening of the Lord, Nor be discouraged when you are rebuked by Him;

[6]For whom the Lord loves He chastens, And scourges every son whom He receives.”

[7]If you endure chastening, God deals with you as with sons; for what son is there whom a father does not chasten?

[8]But if you are without chastening, of which all have become partakers, then you are illegitimate and not sons.

[9]Furthermore, we have had human fathers who corrected us, and we paid them respect. Shall we not much more readily be in subjection to the Father of spirits and live?

[10]For they indeed for a few days chastened us as seemed best to them, but He for our profit, that we may be partakers of His holiness.

[11]Now no chastening seems to be joyful for the present, but painful; nevertheless, afterward it yields the peaceable fruit of righteousness to those who have been trained by it. Renew Your Spiritual Vitality

[12]Therefore strengthen the hands which hang down, and the feeble knees.

INTRODUCTION
To chasten is to correct or discipline someone, often with the use of some pretty sharp punishment for the purpose of moral improvement (Proverbs 19:18; 23:11). We need to consider God's chastening and what He (God) as our Father expects from us in response to the chastisement we receive from Him. Note that chastisement is not meant for destruction. A parent chastises the child he or she loves (Proverbs 3:12; 13:24).

LESSON OUTLINES
1. PURPOSE OF DIVINE CHASTENING
2. BIBLICAL EXAMPLES

PURPOSE OF DIVINE CHASTENING

God's chastening is an expression of His love which He uses to check us and to ensure that as His children, we should live right (Deuteronomy 8:5). Though painful, it eventually yields the fruit of righteousness (Hebrews 12:11). It is a test of true love: a corrective measure (2 Samuel 7:14-15; Psalm 118:18). It is also to help us grow and bring about revival in the church (Hebrews 12:10). Divine chastening brings about restoration for us to continually have fellowship with God and ultimately reign with Him (Deuteronomy 8:5-6). It is to prepare us as vessels unto honour for God's use (2 Timothy 2:21). We must not despite God's chastening so that we will not be condemned with the world (Proverbs 3:11; 1 Corinthians 11:32).

BIBLICAL EXAMPLES

We need to consider some characters in the Bible who endured God's chastening and became better for it. They include;

1. David- God chastised him for committing adultery with Bathsheba and killing Uriah, her husband (2 Samuel 11:4, 16-17; 12:9-10, 18-20).

2. Nebuchadnezzar- God dealt with him for ascribing the glory due to God to himself. He was later restored after he acknowledged God as the almighty (Daniel 4:29-36).

3. Moses- Moses was chastised for not fully believing in God with regard to his calling and failing to observe the token of God's covenant with Abraham (Exodus 4:14, 24-27; Genesis 17:11).

4. Paul- God chastised Saul for persecuting the church, but he was restored as a chosen vessel (Acts 9:1-16).

5. Jonah- For attempting to run from his responsibility towards the salvation of the city of Nineveh, God made a fish swallow him for three days until he repented (Jonah 1:1-4, 2:10; 3:1-2).

CONCLUSION
If you fail to yield to God's chastening, the consequence can be grievous. Let us learn from the examples of Eli (Samuel 2:30; 3:12-13; 4:17) and King Saul (1 Samuel 15:26; 16:1).

QUESTION
1. Why did God chastise His children?
2. Mention five biblical examples of people chastised by God.

02/06/2024

_RCCG SUNDAY SCHOOL STUDENT’S MANUAL_
_LESSON: FORTY_
_DATE: SUNDAY 2ND JUNE 2024_

_TOPIC: NATURAL DISASTERS_

*SUNDAY SCHOOL HYMN*

*1.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
O how I love Thee well,
I am happy, it makes me glad
To rejoice at Thy birth.

*2.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
Thy friendship suits me well,
Both young and old will sing Thy song,
We long for Sunday School.

*3.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
Christ was Thy first teacher,
The Holy Spirit, great teacher,
Does manifest in thee.

*4.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
This testimony is sure,
That God, the Father Almighty,
Poured His blessing on Thee

*5.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
Though the sun be so bright,
Or if the clouds be black with rain,
I'll be in Sunday School.

*6.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day
I rejoice to see Thee,
Will thou pass over me today?
Without my being blest?

MEMORY VERSE: "For nation shall rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom: and there shall be famines, and pestilences, and earthquakes, in divers places". – Matthew 24:7

BIBLE PASSAGE: MATTHEW 24:6-8

6 And ye shall hear of wars and rumours of wars: see that ye be not troubled: for all these things must come to pass, but the end is not yet.

7 For nation shall rise against nation, and kingdom against kingdom: and there shall be famines, and pestilences, and earthquakes, in divers places.

8 All these are the beginning of sorrows.


INTRODUCTION
Natural disasters challenge the Christian belief that God is good. The enormous loss of lives and properties resulting from pandemics, earthquakes, floods, etc, is terrible and tragic. Our grief and even our anger are human, but no one grieves more than the Lord himself (Heb. 4:15). Christ is moved by the afflictions we suffer and even weeps over our pains (Jn. 11:35). Could the God who loves us also be the one to destroy us? How do we reconcile the mercy of God in Christ with His permission for natural disasters?

LESSON OUTLINES
1. BRIEF DESCRIPTION
2. WHY GOD ALLOWS IT

BRIEF DESCRIPTION

Natural disasters are catastrophic events with atmospheric, geographical, or hydrological origins. It is a major adverse events resulting from natural process of the Earth; example include Firestorm, dust storms, floods, hurricanes, tornadoes, volcanic eruptions, earthquakes, tsunamis, storms, and other geological processes. A natural disaster can cause loss of lives or damaged properties are typically leaves some economic damages in its wake, the severity of which depends on the affected population's resilience or the infrastructure available (Luke 21:11).

God created the whole universe and the laws of nature (Genesis 1:1). Most natural disasters are a result of these laws at work. For instance, hurricanes, typhoons, and tornadoes are the results of divergence weather patterns colliding. Earthquakes are the result of the earth's plates structure shifting. A tsunami is caused by an underwater earthquake.

Natural disaster differ from God's use of natural forces as recorded in the Bible Natural disasters kill and maim indiscriminately, God's act of judgement recorded in the Bible were selected (Genesis 19:29-30). On the other hand, natural disasters usually strike with little or no warning. On the other hand, God gave warning to the wicked before using natural forces against them (Genesis 6:13; Matthew 24:33-39).

WHY GOD ALLOWS IT

It is distressing that natural disasters and often often termed "acts of God" while no "credit" is given to God for years, decades, or even centuries of peace and stability. However, generally, God allows natural disasters so as:

i. To serve as a warning for unbelievers. Disasters are warning, and unbelievers often turn to God for the first time when they face a tornado or an earthquake (Rev. 11:13).

ii. To remind us that even nature was affected by sin. Natural disasters remind us that nature, while beautiful, is broken and cursed (Gen. 3:17-18).

iii. To establish God's supremacy over man. Some disasters I've no warning even with all science and technology a country can afford to put in place (Psm. 115:3).

iv. To indicate the beginning of the last days. They are signs of the end times (Matthew 24:3-7)

v. To allow cause and effects to operate independently, some natural disasters are the results of man's abuse and damage to the natural environment (Ecclesiastes 7:29)

vi. To allow believers is to demonstrate God's love to humanity by helping, ministries, counseling, playing, and leading people to the saving faith in Christ (acts 11:28-30 Galatians 6:10).

vii. To establish God's judgement upon the wicked (Genesis 18:20; 19:24-25).

CONCLUSION
God can, and does, bring great good out of terrible tragedies (Rom. 8:28).

QUESTION
1. Describe the term 'natural disaster'
2. Why does God allow 'natural disasters'?

02/06/2024

OPEN HEAVENS DEVOTIONAL

DATE: SUNDAY JUNE 2ND 2024

THEME: GOD REWARDS

MEMORISE: Knowing that whatsoever good thing any man doeth, the same shall he receive of the Lord, whether he be bond or free. Ephesians 6:8

READ: Matthew 6:1-18
1 Take heed that ye do not your alms before men, to be seen of them: otherwise ye have no reward of your Father which is in heaven.

2 Therefore when thou doest thine alms, do not sound a trumpet before thee, as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory of men. Verily I say unto you, they have their reward.

3 But when thou doest alms, let not thy left hand know what thy right hand doeth:

4 That thine alms may be in secret: and thy Father which seeth in secret himself shall reward thee openly.

5 And when thou prayest, thou shalt not be as the hypocrites are: for they love to pray standing in the synagogues and in the corners of the streets, that they may be seen of men. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.

6 But thou, when thou prayest, enter into thy closet, and when thou hast shut thy door, pray to thy Father which is in secret; and thy Father which seeth in secret shall reward thee openly.

7 But when ye pray, use not vain repetitions, as the heathen do: for they think that they shall be heard for their much speaking.

8 Be not ye therefore like unto them: for your Father knoweth what things ye have need of, before ye ask him.

9 After this manner therefore pray ye: Our Father which art in heaven, Hallowed be thy name.

10 Thy kingdom come. Thy will be done in earth, as it is in heaven.

11 Give us this day our daily bread.

12 And forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors.

13 And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil: For thine is the kingdom, and the power, and the glory, forever. Amen.

14 For if ye forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you:

15 But if ye forgive not men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

16 Moreover when ye fast, be not, as the hypocrites, of a sad countenance: for they disfigure their faces, that they may appear unto men to fast. Verily I say unto you, They have their reward.

17 But thou, when thou fastest, anoint thine head, and wash thy face;

18 That thou appear not unto men to fast, but unto thy Father which is in secret: and thy Father, which seeth in secret, shall reward thee openly.

MESSAGE
In over 50 years that I have been serving God, I have observed that He always rewards those who give to Him and work for Him. As long as you live a holy life as His child, He will thank you for whatever you do for Him.

Some years ago, I was going to Port-Harcourt, a city in Southern Nigeria for a crusade. God told me about a man that I met at the Full Gospel Business Men Fellowship International Conference and said that should stay in his house. I had only met this man once. I called him and told him what God said, and he shouted and cried in joy. I stayed at his house and grew very fond of his firstborn, who was a very small boy. One day, I was getting ready to go for the crusade when the children arrived from school. I didn't see my little friend, so l asked his father about him, and he told me that he was at the hospital battling for his life. He had ingested some poison while at school. Immediately, I heard God say, "That was why I asked you to stay here."

God had seen in advance that danger was coming to this man's house and that was why He told me to stay there. I later discovered that this man had told all his colleagues in The Full Gospel Business Men Fellowship that he would pay for all their outreaches for one year. With such a sacrifice, it was not surprising that God decided to protect his home from danger. I went to pray for the boy in the hospital on my way to the crusade that evening. When I got there, the Doctor signaled to me that there was no hope, but I prayed, and by the time I returned, I met him at home because he had been discharged. The boy's father had pledged to give to God, and in turn, God rewarded him by saving his son from death.

God rewards us bountifully whenever we give Him anything from the depth of our hearts. In our Bible reading for today, you will understand that God sees all you do for Him in secret and will reward you in the open. He will never forget anything that you do for Him.

Have you done things for God that will make Him determined to give you a great reward?

KEY POINT
Never hesitate to do anything for God because He will surely reward you for it.

BIBLE IN ONE YEAR: Job 31-34

AUTHOR: PASTOR E. A ADEBOYE

HYMN 26: THERE SHALL BE SHOWERS OF BLESSINGS

1 There shall be showers of blessing:

This is the promise of love;

There shall be seasons refreshing,

Sent from the Savior above.

Refrain

Showers of blessing,

Showers of blessing we need;

Mercy-drops round us are falling,

But for the showers we plead.

2 There shall be showers of blessing—

Precious reviving again;

Over the hills and the valleys,

Sound of abundance of rain.

3 There shall be showers of blessing;

Send them upon us, O Lord!

Grant to us now a refreshing;

Come, and now honor Thy Word.

4 There shall be showers of blessing;

O that today they might fall,

Now as to God we’re confessing,

Now as on Jesus we call!

5 There shall be showers of blessing,

If we but trust and obey;

There shall be seasons refreshing,

If we let God have His way.

01/06/2024

Your month of divine visitation is here, receive your healing strength and energy to excel you shall be above for he that is from above is above all. Welcome to June

26/05/2024

_RCCG SUNDAY SCHOOL TEACHER'S MANUAL_
_LESSON: THIRTY-NINE_
_DATE: SUNDAY 26TH MAY 2024_

_TOPIC: 3RD INTERACTIVE SESSION AND QUARTERLY REVIEW_ *(SUMMARY OF LESSONS 27-38)*

*SUNDAY SCHOOL HYMN*

*1.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
O how I love Thee well,
I am happy, it makes me glad
To rejoice at Thy birth.

*2.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
Thy friend friendship suits me well,
Both young and will sing Thy song,
We long for Sunday School.

*3.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
Christ was Thy first teacher,
The Holy Spirit, great teacher,
Does manifest in thee.

*4.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
This testimony is sure,
That God, the Father Almighty,
Poured His blessing on Thee

*5.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day,
Though the sun be so bright,
Or if the clouds be black with rain,
I'll be in Sunday School.

*6.* O Sunday School, on the Lord's day
I rejoice to see Thee,
Will thou pass over me today?
Without my being blest?

*_LESSON: TWENTY-SEVEN_*

_TOPIC: KINGDOM INFLUENCERS_

MEMORY VERSE: "And Joanna the wife of Chuza Herod's steward, and Susanna, and many others, which ministered unto him of their substance". – Luke 8:3

BIBLE PASSAGE: Luke 23:49-53

INTRODUCTION
Kingdom influencers are believers who impact the world through their ministries and in the marketplaces like the media, politics, hospitality, fashion, marketing, music, education, and technology; by sharing their faith, substance, and expertise to enlarge God's Kingdom here on earth. God needs his children to be Kingdom influences who will take over the spheres of influence here on earth for the excellent ex*****on of His agenda. Are you willing to partner with God on this mission?

LESSON OUTLINES
1. ATTRIBUTES OF KINGDOM INFLUENCERS
2. BECOMING A KINGDOM INFLUENCER

ATTRIBUTES OF KINGDOM INFLUENCERS

i. Kingdom influencers are believers in Christ who contribute significantly to the economy and social well-being of their societies through their chosen careers, vacations, or divine calling (Acts 16:14-15, 40).

ii. They are full of good works and positively showcase the grace of God to the people around them (Acts 9:36-40; Luke 23:50-51).

iii. They are believers who have a good mastery of their respective industries and thus use a combination of faith and competence to influence happenings around them (Exodus 31:2-6).

iv. They are core professionals who strategically promote Jesus along with their trade e.g. football stars, athletes, scientists, etc, and give the credit for their achievements to God.

v. Kingdom influencers have specialised knowledge and authority in a specific subject and as such are irresistible forces in their domain (Judges 4:4-5; 2Samuel. 23:9-10).

vi. They are Christ ambassadors who deliberately publicise Christ anywhere they find themselves (2Corinthians 5:20).

BECOMING A KINGDOM INFLUENCER

Question: How can a person become a kingdom influencer?
Answers: The person must:

i. Have confessed his/her sins to Jesus and accepted Him as personal lord and Savior(Romans 10:9),

ii. Be ready to always share the good news about him (Romans 1:16).

iii. Be filled with the Holy Spirit - the Master strategist who will help him/her as appropriate (Ephesians 5:18).

iv. Develop a 'large heart': friendly and accommodating (Proverbs 18:24).

v. Be ready to work hard, work Smart, work tenacoiusly and aim at becoming a known authority or experts within his/her fields of endeavours (1Kings 7:13-14).

vi. Establish a strong voice in his/her positions like the three Hebrew men (Daniel 3:16-19; 28-29).

vii. Be a Game Changers in his/her spheres of domains (1Samuel 17:32).

viii. Be good stewards with accountability in mind (Luke 19:16-17).

CONCLUSION
Everyone has influence. God expects us to be good stewards of that influence for His kingdom's sake.

*_LESSON: TWENTY EIGHT_*

_TOPIC: CHRISTIANITY AND SOCIALISATION_

MEMORY VERSE: "Let your moderation be known unto all men. The Lord is at hand". – Philippians 4:5

BIBLE PASSAGE: 1CORINTHIANS 6:12-13

INTRODUCTION
To socialise simply means to talk to and do things with other people in a friendly way. There are various ways of socialising, ranging from relating with people in the immediate environment, to getting involved in governance and community development activities. Christian socialisation cuts across recreation, social interaction, cultural activities, and political issues. While there may be diverse opinions on the extent of the involvement of Christians in social issues, it should be noted that moderation should be the watchword.

LESSON OUTLINES
1. BIBLICAL INSTANCES OF SOCIALISATION
2. WORLDLY PERSPECTIVES VERSUS BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE

BIBLICAL INSTANCES OF SOCIALISATION

The Bible contains instances of different forms of socialization. We shall x-ray a few of them.

a. The Lord Jesus socialized in the following instances:

i. Jesus Christ and His disciples attended a wedding ceremony at Cana of Galilee (John 2:1-2).

ii. He dined with Zacchaeus in his house (Luke 19:5).

iii. He was a friend to the family of Lazarus, Mary, and Martha (Luke 10:38-42) and also paid them a condolence visit (John 11:33-35).

iv. He and his disciples also participated in the Feast of Passover (Mark 14:12-14).

b. Apostle Paul interacted with diverse classes of people for the sake of the Gospel to win some (1Corinthians 9:19-23).

c. Daniel was involved in political administration in his days (Daniel 1:18-21; 6:1-3).

WORLDLY PERSPECTIVES VERSUS BIBLICAL PERSPECTIVE

The teacher should state that Christians cannot live in isolation in this present world. However, we must know when and how to draw the line between worldly (sinful) and acceptable (holy) socialisations. For instance:

i. Christians are expected to recreate (1Timothy 4:8) but visiting bar/beer joints and nightclubs for recreation is unacceptable.

ii. Christians should avoid participating or feasting at occasions where idols are celebrated (1Corinthians 10:28).

iii. Modernised carnivals with satanic undertones and other places where Christian integrity is questionable should also be avoided (1Corinthians 8:10-11; 10:19-21).

iv. Watching immoral movies, listening to/singing ungodly music, and wearing seductive dresses in the name of socialisation are also ungodly things Christians must avoid (1Corinthians 8:8-11).

v. While getting involved in secular activities, Christians should watch out and abstain from things that can make them compromise their faith (Philippians 4:8).

CONCLUSION
Whatsoever we do to socialise should be to the glory of God and the edification of the saints (1Corinthians 10:31). Christians are to show moderation in social interactions.

*_LESSON: TWENTY-NINE_*

_TOPIC: CHRISTIANITY AND GOVERNANCE_

MEMORY VERSE: "And hast made us unto our God kings and priests: and we shall reign on the earth". – Revelation 5:10

BIBLE PASSAGE: ROMANS 13:1-6

INTRODUCTION
The opinion held by some Christians that if they were going to follow Christ they must be quiet and withdraw from things happening on the heart, negates the will of God as spelt out in the Scripture. As a matter of fact, Christ has called believers unto a life of influence, control and dominion (Psalm 8:6). They are to take charge (Matthew 5:15-16) and the issue of governance is no exception. As the light of the world, they are to dispel the darkness of unrighteousness, sycophancy, etc. which are the order of the day, in present-day governance system of the world.

LESSON OUTLINES
1. THE VIEW OF GOD ON GOVERNANCE
2. WHY CHRISTIAN SHOULD BE INVOLVED IN GOVERNANCE

THE VIEW OF GOD ON GOVERNANCE

The students should made to know that:

i. God instituted governance. It is not a secular concept or people's creation

ii. God is the ultimate "Governor" who delegate function to humans.(Psalm 22:28; Daniel 4:34).

iii. It is one of the purposes for which the spirit-being called 'Man' was created (Genesis 1:26).

iv. It is calling and manifestation of the gift of the Holy Spirit (1Corinthians 12:28).

v. It is tools for orderliness and sanity (1Corinthians 14:40; Exodus 18:21).

vi. It is instituted by God for administration, Justice and general well-being of the citizen. (1Timothy 2:2).

vii. Like marriage,it is instituted by God, and should be submitted to (Mark 12:17; Romans 13:1-2).

viii. Governance is servanthood. It is the means of serving the governed.(Matthew 20:25-28)

ix. Governance is a ministry while those on government should be regarded as ministers of God (Romans 13:3-4).

CHRISTIAN SHOULD BE INVOLVED IN GOVERNANCE

1. It is part of our inherent design as believers (Genesis 1:26; Matthew 5:15-16).

2. We are to effect positive and lasting change (Genesis 41:46-49; 53-57).

3. It stands out the nation among the other nations (Proverbs 14:34).

4. We shall make righteous laws and decrees that leads to national progress (Mark 6:27 Luke 2:1)

5. It is obeying God's ordinance of submission to authority (Hebrews 13:17; 1Peter 2:13-14).

6. It brings blessing and breakthrough on the nation and fulfillment for her citizenry (Proverbs 11:10).

7. Governance is God's institution and the word of God. So, people of God should not be kept out of God's institution (Romans 13:16).

8. We must avoid paying the costly price of bad leadership (2Samuel 23:3)

CONCLUSION
Believers should take their rightful place in deciding the destiny of their Nations and turn the kingdom of this world to the kingdom of our God which is God's divine mandate for us.

*_LESSON THIRTY_*

_TOPIC: PHYSICAL BREAKTHROUGH_

MEMORY VERSE: ‘’And he removed from thence, and digged another well; and for that they strove not: and he called the name of it Rehoboth; and he said, For now the LORD hath made room for us, and we shall be fruitful in the land.” -- Genesis 26:22

BIBLE PASSAGE: GENESIS 26:1-14

INTRODUCTION:
Generally, a breakthrough is a major progress such as great innovation or discovery that overcomes significant obstacles. In other words, it is overcoming something challenging and having an achievement. A breakthrough usually gives a miraculous result. Breakthrough is often associated with prosperity although it means different things to different people. We can, therefore, talk about physical (financial, material, scientific, academic, etc.) and spiritual breakthrough.


LESSON OUTLINES
1. INSTANCES OF PHYSICAL BREAKTHROUGHS
2. FROM NEGATIVE TO POSITIVE

INSTANCES OF PHYSICAL BREAKTHROUGHS

Question: Mention some physical breakthroughs apart from wealth

Answer:
Physical breakthroughs include but are not limited to wealth (financial and material), scientific, warfare (2Samuel 23:15-16) and academics.

Question: What kind of breakthrough did the lepers experience?

Answer:
They got an unimaginable and amazing breakthrough in the midst of famine and war (2Kings 6:25; 7:8).

Question: What kind of breakthrough did Abraham experience?

Answer:
Abraham laid the foundation of breakthroughs for generations after him (Genesis 18:18).

i. Isaac got a breakthrough in Gerar; he became greater than Abraham, his father and a whole nation envied him (Genesis 26:13-14).
ii. Jacob had an extra-ordinary ‘scientific’ breakthrough and increased exceedingly (Genesis 30:37-43).

Questions: What did Solomon do to get a breakthrough?

Answer:
Through unprecedented sacrifices, Solomon had a ‘multidimensional’ breakthrough (2Chronicles 1:6-12).

FROM NEGATIVE TO POSITIVE

Quite often, a breakthrough connotes a change in trend. One can experience a breakthrough from negative/unfavourable circumstances to positive/favourable conditions. Let us examine some Biblical instances:

i. Obededom: from apparent nothingness to unimaginable blessings (1Chronicles 13:13-14).

ii. Jabez: from sorrow to success (1Chronicles 4:9-10).

iii. Peter: from emptiness to abundance (Luke 5:4-7).

iv. Widow of Zarephath: from hopelessness to miraculous supplies (1Kings 17:10-16).

v. Naaman: from affliction to wholeness (2Kings 5:1-14).

vi. Elizabeth: from barrenness to fruitfulness (Luke 1:5-7, 57).

vii. Widow of the prophet: from indebtedness to wealth (2Kings 4:1-7).

CONCLUSION
There cannot be a physical breakthrough without divine intervention. Therefore, if you are expecting a breakthrough in any facet of your life, you must turn to God for help (Deuteronomy 8:18, 28:8).

*_LESSON: LESSON THIRTY ONE_*

_TOPIC: INTENTIONAL PARENTING_

MEMORY VERSE: "Train up a child in the way he should go: and when he is old, he will not depart from it". – Proverbs 22:6

BIBLE PASSAGE: ESTHER 2:5-9

INTRODUCTION
Good parenting does not just happen. The actions we intentionally take or refuse to take and the ways we consciously parent in the midst of all of life's challenges have a direct impact on our children. In this lesson, we shall consider what it means to parent intentionally and some of the ways to go about it.

LESSON OUTLINES
1. INTENTIONAL PARENTING DESCRIBED
2. WAYS TO BE INTENTIONAL

INTENTIONAL PARENTING DESCRIBED

A. The teacher should test the knowledge of the students on the topic by asking them to explain what intentional parenting means.

B. The teacher should define the meaning of intentional parenting as follows:

i. Parenting with a goal (Habakkuk 2:2).

ii. Ability to think through every step of your child's stage of development (Samuel 1:11).

iii. It is making informed and conscious parenting choices concerning the child. (Genesis 24:3-4; 1 Samuel 1:24).

C. The teacher should explain to the students that intentional parenting focuses on:

i. What parent can do to help their children succeed (2 Timothy 1:5; Proverbs 13:22a).

ii. The specific actions they will take to support their children's strengths and weaknesses (Exodus 18:15-24; Ruth 3:1-5).

iii. Parent's activities to facilitate the development of their children to achieve their desired or desirable results. (2 Timothy 3:14-15).

D. The teacher should ask the students to mention the goal of intentional parenting as indicated below:

i. To help children walk in the footsteps of godly parents (1 Corinthians 11:1).

ii. It is not permissive parenting; it involves giving up control to God while we intentionally do our part as parents (Genesis 18:19; Joshua 24:15).

iii. It also means parents understand themselves, their values, their motivations, strengths, and weaknesses.

iv. Intentional parenting begins with the parents and not with the child. It cannot be outsourced.

WAYS TO BE INTENTIONAL

i. Believe that God has given you the power to influence your child positively (Philippians 4:13).

ii. Get the right knowledge through the word of God, counselling, reading books on parenting, attending training/seminars, etc (Proverbs 4:7).

iii. Know that childhood is neither a race nor a competition. There is no basis for comparison (2 Corinthians 10:12).

iv. Give them age-appropriate responsibilities (Genesis 37:13-14; 1 Samuel 17:17-18).

v. Teach them essential life skills (Proverbs 31:1-9).

vi. Deliberately teach them the word of God (Deuteronomy 6:6-7, 2 Timothy 3:15).

vii. Accept your child's uniqueness (Psalms 139:14).

viii. Be a great role model (Titus 2:7).

ix. Be consistent, persistent, and deliberate with discipline (Proverbs 29:15; Hebrews 12:7).

x. Communication values clearly to your children. Do not parent on assumption (Psalms 78:2-4).

xi. Be an emotionally intelligent parent (Colossians 3:21).

xii. Work on yourself as a parent (Matthew 7:3-5).

CONCLUSION
Parenting with intentionally will bring you and your child greater happiness (Proverbs 29:17). Start early.

*_LESSON: THIRTY-TWO_*

_TOPIC: MARRIAGE STATUS_

MEMORY VERSE: "Nevertheless let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself; and the wife see that she reverence her husband". – Ephesians 5:33

BIBLE PASSAGE: Ephesians 5:22-29

INTRODUCTION
Marriage is a state if being united as man and woman in a consensual and contractual relationship recognised by law. According to the Bible, marriage is a honourable institution (Heb. 13:4) and a lifetime generally observed that some marriages are in a state of coma or completely dead, while some merely exist. What is the status of your marriage as a believer? It is interesting to know that God desires that we all have living marriages.

LESSON OUTLINES
1. MARRIAGE STATUES
2. CHARACTERISTICS OF A LIVING MARRIAGE

MARRIAGE STATUES

The teacher should highlight the characteristics of the following marriage status as indicated below:

I. 'Marriage in coma': This is a marriage in which neither of the spouses feels the presence of the other nor spends quality time together.
Thus marriage has the following characteristics:
i. bitterness and resentment (Heb. 12:15).
ii. The couple refuses to keep communication lines open.
iii. They dwell more on each other's weaknesses or offenses (1Samuel 25:25-26).
iv. There is selfishness
v. Partners may be inconsiderate (Philippians 2:3).

II. 'Dead marriage': In this kind of marriage, there are no traces of true love.
i. Even if they are living under the same roof, there may not be emotional attachment/attraction or genuine concern for each other's well-being.
ii. They are more like familiar strangers or so people just cohabiting (1Corinthians 3:3).

III. 'Leaving marriage': This is a kind of marriage in which the couple dwells together in understanding
i. There is genuine love.
ii. There is sacrifice and patience
iii. Couple enjoys the company of each other (Genesis 26:8).
iv. Over time they have learned to manage their weaknesses or excuses.

CHARACTERISTICS OF A LIVING MARRIAGE

A living marriage is a function of mutual fulfillment derived from a selfless commitment to the marital union. This can only be achieved by the grace of God, determination, and deliberate effort of both partners. Here are some characteristics of a living marriage:
i. The fear of God: The couple subject their decision to the standard of God's word and operates their home based on the fear and love of God. (Genesis 18:19; Isa. 8:13).

ii. Love: The love between such a couple transcends 'eros' (s*xual intimacy). It is God's kind of love that is unconditional and sacrificial (1Corinthians 13:4-8; Ephesians 5:24-25). A couple in a living marriage is prepared to 'weather the storm' throughout their lifetime.

iii. Mutual support: This couple decides to support each other through 'thick and thin' (Galatians 6:2).

iv. Forgiveness: Conflicts are inevitable, and sometimes healthy because it promotes a better understanding, The couple is quick to ask for forgiveness as well as to grant it (Ephesians 4:32).

v. Kindness: They maintain a great habit of being kind and understanding each other (Romans 12:10).

vi. Commitment: They show a keen interest in the progress of each other's careers, ministry, business, extended families, etc. They share each other's views and visions (Philippians 2:4).

vii. Appreciation: They develop the attitude of gratitude and celebrate each other (Philippians 2:3).

viii. Acceptance: They do not dwell on the weakness of each other but prayerfully work on each other and trust God for positive changes (Ephesians 4:2).

ix. Time: They spend quality time together and understanding and knowing each other (Genesis 26:8; Ecclesiastes 9:9).

CONCLUSION
In a living marriage, the human ego is reduced to the barest minimum to enjoy marital bliss.

*_LESSON: THIRTY THREE_*

_TOPIC: BROKEN HOMES_

MEMORY VERSE: "And if a house be divided against itself, that house cannot stand". – Mark 3:25

BIBLE PASSAGE: GENESIS 25:24-34

INTRODUCTION
Families are the bedrock of society. When families fall apart, society falls into social and cultural decline. The plan of God for homes is for them to remain united in the body and spirit (Psalms 133:1). A broken home is a family in which the parents are separated or divorced. So many children and estranged partners have suffered the consequences of a broken home. This has caused society and the church a lot of unrest. It is, therefore, necessary to examine the causes of broken homes and their remedy.

LESSON OUTLINES
1. CAUSES OF BROKEN HOMES
2. EFFECTS AND REMEDY FOR BROKEN HOMES

CAUSES OF BROKEN HOMES

The teacher should explain the pointed listed below as some factors that bring about a broken hom.

1. Cultural shift - a decline of religion and morality (2Timothy 3:1-5; Colossians 2:8).

2. A wrong choice in marriage (Proverbs 21:9; Proverbs 19:13).

3. The negative influence of parents, friends, etc. (Genesis 2:24; Proverbs 13:20).

4. Lack of genuine sacrificial love (1John 3:16; Romans 5:7-8).

5. Communication breakdown (Matthew 5:37).

6. Sexual Unfaithfulness between a couple (Hebrews 13:4).

7. Stinginess, meanness, or poor economic planning (1 Timothy 6:10).

8. Preference for a child over another child (siblings) Genesis 25:28.

9. Undue attachment to job or other things than the family (Psalms 127:2).

10. Worldly pleasure (1John 2:15).

EFFECTS AND REMEDY FOR BROKEN HOMES

Some effects of a broken home include:

1. Husbands abandon spouses and children.

2. Wives walk out of the marriage.

3. Either or both live alone or with strange fellows.

4. Children suffer emotional stress arising from abandonment.

5. Children may lose interest in relationships and life in general.

6. Children are likely to exhibit anti-social behaviours.

7. Complete and unified parental love is lacking.

8. Society witnesses an increase in crime rate.

B. REMEDY FOR BROKEN HOMES

Those who suffer the pains of broken homes can apply the following solutions:

1. Embrace the love of Jesus through salvation. (Romans 5:8).

2. Commit everything to God in prayer. He is greater than any difficulty. Psalm 50:15; Jeremiah 32:27).

3. Ask God to make you a better person in the present circumstances. (Psalms 51:10).

4. Seek the help of other Christians. (Proverbs 11:14).

5. Seek Professional help and counsel.

6. Learn to forgive and seek reconciliation or restoration. (Ephesians 4:32; Romans 12:18; Isaiah 57:18).

7. Be patient to meet your spouse at their point of need. (Ecclesiastes 7:8; 1Corinthians 7:1).

CONCLUSION
Broken homes can be described as 'broken lives.' Do all you can to make your family strong and united.

*_LESSON: THIRTY-FOUR_*

_TOPIC: LOVE LANGUAGE IN MARRIAGE_

MEMORY VERSE: "By long forbearing is a prince persuaded, and a soft tongue breaketh the bone". – Proverbs 25:15

BIBLE PASSAGE: GENESIS 2:18-25

INTRODUCTION
Many marriages are needlessly failing because the marriage partners have a lack of knowledge regarding relationship dynamics (Hosea 4:6). Most couples, sadly to say are ignorance on purpose. In this study, we will look at the scriptural principles and the love language that should characterize our marital relationships.

LESSON OUTLINES
1. SCRIPTURAL PRINCIPLES GUIDING MARRIAGE
2. UNDERSTANDING THE"LOVE LANGUAGE"

SCRIPTURAL PRINCIPLES GUIDING MARRIAGE

The teacher should explain the following eight (8) scriptural principle guiding Marriage to students:

i. The image of God is best expressed in the combination of male and female (Genesis 1:27).
ii. The God-designed difference between male and female is to be accepted as complementary, not competitive (Genesis 2:18).
iii Marriage is a divine, not human institution (Genesis 2:21-23).
iv. It is to be a relationship of companionship, completion, and Communion (Genesis 2:25; Matthew 19:5).
v. Marriage was designed by God to be a permanent, mutual, covenant relationship (Matthew 19:6).
vi. God's intention for marriage is to be an inestimable source of Joy and fulfillment (Proverbs 18:22)
vi. Marriage is a major part of God's plan to bring redemption to human race (Genesis 22:18).
vii. The seed of the marriage relationship provided the vehicle for the incarnation of the Savior Jesus Christ (Genesis 3:15; Ephesians 5:31-32)

UNDERSTANDING THE"LOVE LANGUAGE"

Many problems in marriage usually occur due to the inability of the partner to understand each other's love language. Love language is an expression that makes you or your partner feel loved. There are five primary love languages. They are:

i. *Quality Time:* Spending time with each other and talking without interruptions, going out and about having fun together, celebrating birthdays and wedding anniversaries, etc Let the courtship experience continuing (Genesis 26:8)

ii. *Acts of Service:* Do things you know your spouse will like you to do. For example, cooking meals, helping each other especially in household chores, etc. (Ecclesiastes 4:9)

iii. *Exchange of Gifts:* Express your love for each other through giving/receiving gifts no matter how small (1Samuel 1:5)

iv. *Words of Affirmation:* couple must be consistent in saying 'I love you', 'I am sorry', 'Thank you', 'You look nice in that dress', etc. to each other (Songs of Solomon's 4:1,7)

v. *Physical Touching:* This is a way of communicating emotional love e.g. holding hands, kissing, pecking, embracing, patting, necking, nibbling, sitting close to each other, etc. (Songs of Solomon 1:2)

CONCLUSION
Couples should discover and Express to each other what 'their' primary love language is and not just say them but do them!

*_LESSON: THIRTY FIVE_*

_TOPIC: THE "WAITING ROOM"_

MEMORY VERSE: "My soul, wait thou only upon God; for my expectation is from him". – Psalms 62:5

BIBLE PASSAGE: LAMENTATIONS 3:24-26

INTRODUCTION
Waiting on God is not only difficult, but sometimes, it seems impossible. We want things to happen in our timing, according to our plan, but God does not operate on our schedules (Isaiah 55:8-9). God wants us to wait on Him in eager anticipation, knowing that He is with us and in control of our lives. He will do what He has promised. He will rescue and save us. He is always working for our good, even when we do not feel his presence or understand the situation (Romans 8:28).

LESSON OUTLINES
1. THE "WAITING ROOM" AND ITS BLESSINGS
2. THINGS TO DO IN THE WAITING ROOM

THE "WAITING ROOM" AND ITS BLESSINGS

i. The "waiting room" is the place of seeking God's intervention over a situation or condition (Psalms 40:1).

ii. It is the gap between God's promises and their fulfillment (Genesis 21:2; Romans 4:18-21).

iii. It is the space between "crying" for a change and God's response to the cry (Jonah 2:2; Lamentations 3:55-58).

iv. It is where we prepare for the next phase of the journey (Genesis 28:10-16).

B. NATURE OF THE 'WAITING ROOM':

i. Waiting is unavoidable (Psalms 145:15); at one point or the other, we all have to wait on God for something (Psalms 130:5-6).

ii. Waiting will not be forever (2 Corinthians 4:17; Romans 8:18).

iii. Sometimes, God puts us in the "waiting room" against our will to allow us to change (Jonah 1:17).

iv. At other times, God uses the "waiting room" to test our commitment and grow our faith (Psalms 66:10-12).

v. The ability to wait on the Lord comes from being confident and focused on who God is and what he is doing (Philippians 1:6).

C. BLESSINGS OF WAITING

Some blessings accrue to us when we are in God's waiting room.

i. We learn and experience trust (Romans 4:21).

ii. Waiting renews our strength (Isaiah 40:31).

iii. Builds our faith and confidence in God (Romans 4:19-20).

iv. Takes away shame (Isaiah 61:7).

v. Builds patience (James 1:3), makes us authorities as we showcase His glory (Job 23:10).

THINGS TO DO IN THE WAITING ROOM

How we emerge from God's waiting room is dependent on our attitude. We must take heed of the following:

i. Waiting on God requires us to put aside our ways of doing things, and trust His timing and plans (Psalm 90:4).

ii. We should not alter God's timetable by going contrary to his will (Job 14:14; Hebrews 12:2).

iii. We must be sure of God's direction (Psalm 37:23; Isaiah 30:21). We should be thankful for what God will do in our situation (Philippians 4:6-7; 1 Thessalonians 5:18).

iv. We need to also learn to be content and patient (Hebrews 6:15; 10:36).

v. We should be of good courage (Psalm 27:14), actively seeking God in prayer and studying the word of God (1 Chronicles 16:11; Psalm 130:5).

vi. We need to consciously take actions as directed by the Holy Spirit (Proverbs 3:5-6).

vii. We must channel our strength to other areas of interest, our lives must not really revolve around our challenges.

CONCLUSION
Remember that delay is not denial. You are in God's waiting room, and He is at work.

*_LESSON: THIRTY-SIX_*

_TOPIC: MEMORIES_

MEMORY VERSE: "Finally, brethren, whatsoever things are true, whatsoever things are honest, whatsoever things are just, whatsoever things are pure, whatsoever things are lovely, whatsoever things are of good report; if there be any virtue, and if there be any praise, think on these things". – Philippians 4:8

BIBLE PASSAGE: 1SAMUEL 17:33-37

INTRODUCTION
Memories are events or experiences that happened in the past. God designed us each with memory - the capacity and capability of the human brain to store and retrieve past events. The human memory is utilised continuously memory-by-memory to record what is going on in our lives even things done secretly. This lesson shall highlight some facts about human memory and how believers should manage their memories.

LESSON OUTLINES
1. FACTS ABOUT HUMAN MEMORY
2. MANAGING OUR MEMORIES

FACTS ABOUT HUMAN MEMORY

The human memory is involved in virtually almost what we do as humans:
1. It records what is ongoing in our lives even mental images in our sleep (Genesis 41:1-8). Without it, we have no identity and purpose, and life will be meaningless.
2. It provides us with a source of the direction of what to do and how to do it through experience (1Samuel 17:33-37).
3. The capacity of the human brain (memory) is believed to be approximately 2.5 million gigabytes or 2,500 terabytes (2.5 petabytes) This storage device can store up to 300 years of continually recorded non-stop television video.
4. Unlike a hard disk drive, you cannot delete memories from your brain. If you stop thinking about certain memories and focus on others, they will slowly recede into the background. Some memories may not recede but are inaccessible, they are not entirely gone and could potentially be retrieved (Daniel 4:33-34, 36)
5. Memories are spiritual and part of our soul for instance; the martyrs could still recall how they were treated on earth (Revelation 6:9-10).
6. The entire body will decay in death but the memory and soul will remain

MANAGING OUR MEMORIES

Our memories can be pleasant or unpleasant which may be triggered by something we have seen or heard; or we just appear in our mind without a 'trigger', However, as believers:
1. We should know what to dwell on and what to let go of (Philippians 4:8)
2. We should treasure things that are inspiring in our hearts. Be it prophecies, revelation from the scriptures, and so on. One of the ways of doing this is by taking notes (Luke 2:19)
3. We should recall what the Lord has done; How He drew us unto repentance and salvation, His faithfulness, kindness, and so on. (Ephesians 2:11-13). This in turn, provokes worship that glorifies God and brings strength, courage, hope, and Faith when we struggle with affliction and oppositions (Psalm 8:1-4 ;1Samuel 17:36-37).
4. We should recall others in our prayers, be the unsaved family members, co-workers, or friends in tough situations (2Timothy 1:3-5; Hebrews 13:3)
5. The painful memories will recall should be handed over to our Savior who can pour out love and comfort to restore our broken hearts (Psalm 116:3-5; Hebrews 4:15)
6. Everyone will one day be just "a memory" we should live in such a way that we would leave the stage with a good memory of ourselves to encourage and inspire others after our death (Proverbs 10:7; Psalm 112:6)

CONCLUSION
Humans have the power to store a vast amount of experiences throughout their lives, but as believers we should know which to recall or to let go, to the glory of God

*_LESSON: THIRTY-SEVEN_*

_TOPIC: DEPRESSION (PART 1)_

MEMORY VERSE: "And when Rachel saw that she bare Jacob no children, Rachel envied her sister; and said unto Jacob, Give me children, or else I die". – Genesis 30:1

BIBLE PASSAGE: 1Kings 19:1-4

INTRODUCTION
Depression is a word from the latin verb "deprimere," meaning to press down. It is an emotional response triggered by circumstances beyond one's mental stability. It is a mental health illness or mood disorder where one experiences unusual persistent sadness. As the saying goes, there is no health without mental health. This shows that other aspects of health such as physical, financial, spiritual, and social can also take a downward spiral due to a depressive illness. Hence, it is important to educate ourselves on the causes, symptoms, and the way out of depression.

LESSON OUTLINES
1. BIBLICAL INSTANCES AND CAUSES
2. PREVENTION OF DEPRESSION

BIBLICAL INSTANCES AND CAUSES

A. BIBLICAL INSTANCES
Depression is often viewed as a persistent feeling of sadness (Romans 8:20-22). There are many biblical examples of men of God who struggled with sadness, even to the point of depression. David, a man after God's own heart (Acts 13:22), did not gloss over is sadness; he expressed it to God (Psalm 56:8). Both Moses (Numbers 11:15) and Elijah (1Kings 19:3-5), two heroes of the faith, confessed to God that they preferred to die than live in their current reality.

B. CAUSES
Depression can be triggered by negative events such as
i. The loss of a loved one,
ii. loss of a job,
iii. loss of a relationship,
iv. loss of a pet,
v. economic crisis,
vi. financial instability,
vii unpleasant circumstances, etc (1Samuel 1:6-7; Nehemiah 2:2).
Biologically, depression manifest when some chemical changes occur in the human brain due to persistent uncontrollable and feelings. This causes changes in the levels of some hormones in the brain which include cortisol, adrenaline, and dopamine. These changes affects multiple organs in the body including the brain leading to a gross reduction in human productivity and health.

C. SYMPTOMS
Consequently, symptoms of depression includes a depressed mood or feeling of sadness, constant tiredness, reduced or lost lost interest in the previously enjoyable activities, forgetfulness, hopelessness, helplessness, worthlessness, thoughts of su***de, su***de attempts, and being overly suspicious of people or events. Excessive complaints of body pains, loss of appetite, loss of interest in s*x, loss of sleep, and poor attention can also signal a depressive illness.

PREVENTION OF DEPRESSION

Question 1:
What are some inadequate coping mechanisms some people use for this mood disorder?
i. abuse of alcohol,
ii. smoking,
iii. absenteeism,
iv. spouse battery,
v. over-spirituality,
vi.over-socialization, etc.

Question 2:
Can this coping mechanism cure depression?

Answer:
These maladaptive coping mechanisms give short-term relief but only worsen the symptoms and eventually lead to a severe mental illness.

Question 3:
In addition to seeking medical or professional interventions. What can believers do to prevent depression?

Answers:
1. A Christian is supposed to be filled with joy (Romans 15:13). Joy is something the Holy Spirit produces in the life of a follower of Jesus Christ (Galatians 5:22; 1thessalonians 1:6).

2. God will never leave His own (Deuteronomy 31:8).

3. God will strengthen and uphold His children with regardless of the situation (Isaiah 41:10).

4. God hears our cry (Psalm 41:3).

5. God is near to the broken-hearted (Psalm 34:18-19; Matthew 11:28-30).

6. Develop for positive attitudes;

7. Understand our mental limits;

8. Build problem-solving skills, resilience skills, and good communication skills.

CONCLUSION
Depression contributes to poor personal, family, community, and economic growth. It can be difficult to recognise but once any of the symptoms are noticed, it is important to seek care immediately.

*_LESSON: THIRTY EIGHT_*

_TOPIC: DEPRESSION (PART 2)_

MEMORY VERSE: "Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil; For thou art with me; Your rod and thy staff, they comfort me". –Psalm 23:4

BIBLE PASSAGE: JOB 3:23-26

INTRODUCTION
Depression is misunderstood by many, and if often carries a stigma. It can distort one's doubt his/her judgement. Only those who have gone through depression can comprehend how terrible the experience can be. Finding healing is possible but may take time. Some people may give the wrong advice because they do not understand depression. Therefore, it is important to find out what is and is not true about depression and tips that can help people going through it.

LESSON OUTLINES
1. MISCONCEPTION VS REALITY
2. HELPFUL TIP FOR THE DEPRESSED

MISCONCEPTION VERSUS REALITY

1. Misconception: Depression is not real.

Reality: Depression is a real illness that impacts the brain's ability to function as it should.

2. Misconception: Depression is a sin. Being depressed means you are falling to trust God.

Reality: Depression is a mental illness, not a sin.

3. Misconception: Depression will go away if you pray hard enough or have enough faith.

Reality: Depression is a serious illness that usually needs prayer plus treatment. God gave doctors and mental health professionals the understanding and skills to help those who are suffering.

4. Misconception: Depression is a punishment from God. If you feel depressed, it is because you have not confessed your sins (John 9:1-3).

Reality: Depression is not the fault of the person who is suffering. It is a trial that can redefine someone's faith, but it is not a punishment for sin.

5. Misconception: People with depression are unstable and cannot be trusted with church leadership or responsibilities.

Reality: Depression and other mental illnesses do not disqualify people from leadership or church roles except during times of 'deep depression'. The experience can give people compassion or perspective in a way that makes them good leaders (1 Samuel 30:1-10).

6. Misconception: It is shameful to discuss mental illness openly.

Reality: The church community should be a safe environment for people to discuss mental health without prejudice.

7. Misconception: You can always tell that someone is depressed by outward appearances or actions.

Reality: You cannot always tell that someone is depressed from how they look or act. Some depressed people are so skilled at hiding their conditions that you would never know.

HELPFUL TIP FOR THE DEPRESSED

Below are some helpful tips if you are a Christian going through depression or if you know someone who is:

1. God cares about your state (Hebrews 4:15; 1 Peter 5:7).

2. Like biblical patriarchs,you are not alone (Jeremiah 20:7-11; 1 Kings 19:4-6; Psalm 42:9).

3. God's love and faithfulness never depend on you. His love for us is solely dependent on His character, grace, and goodness (Lamentations 3:21-23).

4. God saves and delivers from afflictions (Psalm 34:18-19).

5. God can bring good even out of something as bad as depression (Romans 8:28).

6. There is still hope. Your low thoughts and emotions are not the truth (Job 14:7-9; Romans 8 35-39).

7. You can find strength by leaning on community (Romans 15:1).

8. Your friends and family can help you by praying and being there for you.

9. It is not a sin to seek professional help for depression as a Christian (Luke 5:31).

10. Do not allow anything to separate you from God (Romans 8:38-39; Hebrews 12:2).

CONCLUSION
With God's love and support from the people around you, you can get through depression.