19/08/2026
Ecclesiastes 7:2–4
“It is better to go to a house of mourning than to a house of feasting…”
It's a confronting verse, isn't it? I mean I love a good feast!!
We naturally want to avoid the hard stuff. The sadness, the grief, the disappointment, the seasons that leave us asking, “Why?”
But I’ve been thinking about this, and have noticed that sometimes it is the hard places that slow us down enough to really think about what matters.
Grief reminds us how deeply we love.
A diagnosis reminds us there are things out of our control
And difficult seasons have a way of stripping away the things we thought were important and showing us what really is.
I know for me, some of the deepest growth in my relationship with God has happened in the seasons I would never have chosen.
The seasons where I haven't known what to do next. Of desperation....Where I've had to let go of my own plans and my own idea of how things should work out.
I've had to learn to trust Him when I couldn't see what He was doing.
To become more dependent on Him. And honestly, I don't think I would have learned some of those things in the easy seasons.
That doesn't mean I would choose the hard seasons again. And it doesn't mean the pain wasn't real.
But I can look back at tough seasons and see that God was there.
He was faithful. He was with me. Comforting me and teaching me to trust Him and reminding me that He is enough.
It’s when I look back and see how God was there then, that it gives me confidence for today.
I may not understand this season. I may not know how it will unfold.
But I've seen enough of God's faithfulness to know that He is still with me here.
The God who carried me then is the same God who carries me now.
So maybe the hard seasons aren't wasted seasons.
Maybe they are places where God teaches us to depend on Him, to let go of our ways, and to discover that He really is faithful through it all.
“God, help me to trust You in this season, even when I can't see what You're doing. Help me remember Your faithfulness, and keep my eyes fixed on You.”